61: Be Your Own Muse

Dressed, Styled, and Down the Aisle - The Stylish Bride

We are excited to dive into what it means to be your own bridal muse today!

In this episode, we get into ways to find inspiration within yourself instead of relying on external sources.

This topic is very close to our hearts! Join us as we explore the concept of being your own muse during your bridal journey.

The Concept of Being Your Own Muse

With all the opinions flying around and images bombarding you as you go through your engagement and wedding planning process, it is crucial to look within yourself for inspiration. Our experience has shown us that brides do not always get this advice, yet it makes an enormous difference. Trust us- you have all the info you need inside yourself!

Personal Style

Focusing on your personal style is a game-changer! Personal style is not one-dimensional. It is a unique blend of elements encompassing various layers and reflecting different sides of our personalities. Often, we simplify it as either classic or boho, but the reality is far more intricate.

The Style Cocktail Method

We have been using a strategy we refer to as the Style Cocktail method with our clients for many years to help them break down their personal style, wedding style, body type, and budget. We compare personal style to a cocktail with a base, mixer, and a splash of something extra. In Julie’s upcoming book, Dressed, Styled, and Down the Aisle, she has dedicated an entire chapter to the Cocktail Style method. You can think of it as the key to unlocking your personal preferences, and it works like a charm!

Closet Analysis

Time to raid your closet, ladies! Look closely at the colors, fabrics, and embellishments you naturally lean toward. It will be like having your closet tell you a story about your style.

Body Shape Exploration

To define your body shape and confirm what makes you feel fabulous, check out the necklines, skirt shapes, and sleeve lengths you prefer.

Instagram

In addition to your closet, your Instagram feed can spill some of your style secrets. To make the most of Instagram, look for hashtags, designer profiles, and real brides for inspiration. It is a goldmine when used strategically.

Strategic Use of Pinterest

Use specific search terms and be as detailed as possible when using Pinterest. Pin anything that catches your eye, and then step back. When you return a day or two later, edit your board and notice the trends. The key is spotting your top designers and trends.

Planning for Dress Appointments

Now that you have armed yourself with your Style Cocktail insights and a killer Pinterest board, it is time to prepare for your dress appointments. Go to your first appointment with a clear view of your preferences, but remain open to new ideas. Get to know the names or style numbers of the dresses you are after, and look for local stores carrying those dresses. Being as efficient and specific as possible will save you time and make the entire process smoother.

In our next episode, we will dive into scheduling and making appointments. Stay tuned, and happy hunting!

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