Becoming a Good Person // Essential Life Skills, Part 5

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It’s funny how these days, there seem to be so many shades of grey when it comes to the difference between right, and wrong. But however you want to cut it, some things are right, and some things are wrong. Some people are good, and some people are bad. Which one are you?

Wickedness is rather a strong word. I don’t think that any of us really thinks of ourselves ever as being "wicked". According to my dictionary, wickedness is the quality of being evil or morally wrong. Someone who intends, or at least is capable of harming someone else. Wickedness is something that broods in a person’s heart and then comes out in their words, their demeanour and their actions. So, might I ask you today – are you a wicked person?

At this point, most of us are prepared to cut ourselves some slack. Well, you know, I’m not that bad. Sometimes I have bad thoughts about people and yep, sometimes I hurt other people, but ‘wicked’, no that’s too strong a word to apply to me.

Really? Isn’t it amazing how we want to flee to the middle ground when we judge ourselves, our own thoughts and intentions, our own actions? We forsake the black and white of right and wrong, good and evil, and we soften the blow of self-judgement with shades of grey. And in any case, other people, well, they compromise as well don’t they? They make mistakes too. They do things that are morally wrong too. I’m not the only one, right? It’s so easy to be led astray in a world that has such incredibly low standards. Psalm 1, verses 1 and 2:

Happy are those who do not follow the advice of the wicked, or take the path that sinners tread, or sit in the seat of scoffers; but their delight is in the law of the Lord, and on his law they meditate day and night.

How easy is it in this world to take the advice of the wicked, to follow the path that sinners tread, or to sit in the seat of the scoffers? It’s so easy to do in the workplace, or in a social setting or even, let me say, in a church setting. When other people are behaving badly, we have a tendency to follow their lead, by stooping down to their level.

The original Hebrew word used there for "happy" literally means to be happy because you are blessed. God wants to bless you. God wants you to be happy as you receive His blessing into your life. But that’s not going to happen, if you follow the advice of the wicked, or tread in the path of the sinner, or sit in the seat of the scoffer.

So whatever wickedness you have bubbling away in your heart, wherever you know you’ve gone astray by following wicked advice – right now is the time to turn away from it and instead, delight in God’s Word. Instead meditate on it day and night. Because that’s where God’s blessing is to be found and that’s the only place where true happiness will overtake you.

Sometimes we find ourselves mired in the consequences of the mistakes that we’ve made, in the consequences of our sin, in the consequences of, let me be blunt here, our own wickedness. And when you’re that low, it seems virtually impossible to work your way out of it. How can I possibly move on from this place, from all the things that I’ve done wrong?

That’s the question that rattles around in the hearts and minds of so many people. And sadly, because they can’t see a way out, many of those same people end up wallowing in their sin and their wickedness for way too long.

Me? I knew in my life that many of the things I was doing were wrong. I knew there was a God out there somewhere. And I knew I needed to find Him. My problem was, that I also knew that I didn’t measure up. That He was good and I wasn’t, no doubt, if I bumped into Him, I’d be in some serious trouble.

Just in case you find yourself in that place, I want to share with you the way out. Unless and until our slate is wiped clean, unless and until the sins of the past are atoned for and our conscience is clean, the reality is, we simply can’t move forward. So here’s the good news. Are you ready? That’s exactly why Jesus died for you. 1 Corinthians chapter 15, verse 3:

For I handed on to you as of first importance what I in turn had received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the scriptures.

Plain and simple, if you put your trust in that one truth, if you trust completely in Jesus, your sins are wiped away. You are forgiven. God’s wrath is removed from you. It's an act of God’s grace. It's an act of God’s mercy. Where once you were mired in your sin, now you are completely free, completely forgiven.

And it’s at this point, that you can make the decision that you’ve been longing to make. To start living your life the right way rather than the wrong way. To start living for good, rather than for bad. Because after all ... Romans chapter 2, verse 4:

Do you not realise that God’s kindness is meant to lead you to repentance?

"Repentance" seems like such an old-fashioned word. But it literally means to turn – in this case, to turn away from evil and to turn back to God.

It's a decision that we all long to make. We all want to live a good life. But the power to make that decision, comes only when we trust in Jesus. So, no matter what evil, what wickedness, what sin, the consequences of which you’re living out right now, Jesus stands ready to forgive you, to set you free ... to give you a new life. And at that point, your life is going to start bearing good fruit. Really, really good fruit.

I love fruit trees. I remember as a young boy, Mum and Dad had nectarine trees, peach trees, apricot trees, plum trees in the backyard. Man, in spring and in summer when those trees started producing their fruit, my sister and I would just go outside and it was amazing.

What do I feel like today? Oh those plums look good, so I’d just pluck a plum off the tree, sit down on the grass and eat it. So sweet and tasty. And the nectarines, when they were ripe, wow! There’s something about fruit trees, right? So long as they have their roots down in good soil, and they get plenty of water, they are going to keep on giving. They are just going to yield their fruit in due season. And interestingly, it’s that luscious, tasty, amazing abundant picture that God uses to describe the life that He wants you to live. Psalm 1, verses 1 to 3:

Happy are those who do not follow the advice of the wicked, or take the path that sinners tread, or sit in the seat of the scoffers; but their delight is in the law of the Lord, and on his law they meditate day and night. They are like trees planted by streams of water, which yield their fruit in its season, and their leaves do not wither. In all they do, they prosper.

Chances are, you’ve never really thought of yourself as a fruit tree. But let’s just sit down on the grass and look at this picture that God’s painting for us. When we choose to do good rather than to be wicked, when we choose to become a man or a woman of God’s Word, feeding on God’s Word the way that a fruit tree feeds on the soil and the streams, the promise is that our lives will indeed yield rich fruit in season.

Do you feel sometimes like there’s not quite the overwhelming abundance of fruit that there perhaps should be in your life? Do you feel as though sometimes your leaves seem to be withering, your emotions are frayed, you’re spiritually dry, you’re completely spent?

Then it’s time to deliberately get into God’s Word. Interestingly, the original Hebrew word used there for ‘streams of water’ implies irrigation channels. In other words, a deliberate, man-made decision and act, to bring the water to the trees. And it’s that same deliberate decision and act that you can make, to become someone who is immersed in God’s Word.

Because then, with goodness flowing into you, you won’t be tempted to follow the wicked, the sinners and the scoffers. Instead, you’ll be like one of those amazing fruit trees I was telling you about, yielding a bounty of stunning fruit in due season. That’s the natural consequence of a tree that’s planted in good soil, by streams of living water.