In this episode I respond to a request for love advice! This listener struggles with their self critical thoughts playing like a radio in the background - getting in the way of them connecting with others as they're meeting new people to date - we talk about what that radio station is, why it's there, and how to switch to a different station <3 More info on thought work - https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/the-thought-ladder/ Bunny Michael - https://www.instagram.com/bunnymichael/ Transcript - https://open.substack.com/pub/awholeorange/p/how-to-tune-out-of-your-self-critical?r=452sdv&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true Links to A Whole Orange stuff - https://linktr.ee/awholeorange…

I talk about one train of thought that came out of Shon Fayes book - Love In Exile - and I tell you about a very exciting project I'm working on for June :) https://linktr.ee/awholeorange

This week we talk about uncertainty, what is it? why is it so sexy? how does it disrupt our attempts to make connection and WHAT CAN WE DO ABOUT IT! Links to A Whole Orange Matchmaking - Reccs from the episode: Dykes who hike - https://www.instagram.com/dykeswhohikeldn/?hl=en Queer Gaming at Badger badger - https://www.instagram.com/queer.gaming/?hl=en Tribe - https://www.instagram.com/tribe_incorporated/?hl=en Queer chat and craft at the lgbt centre - https://www.instagram.com/ldnlgbtqcentre/?hl=en Folk of the Round table - https://www.instagram.com/folk_of_the_round_table/?hl=en…

A very little and very rushed episode to mark Valentines Day - in 2019 I started up AWO and minus a year for COVID, it's been 5 years of queer matchmaking! I ran out of time for what I wanted to do, but I wanted to at least mark the birthday :) Love Kim xxx https://linktr.ee/awholeorange

Have a listen to me using the excuse of Valentines Day to talk about the importance of community and fail to mention what my business offers or any of my events in any way during the entirety of the podcast :) ❤️ Links - Museum of Transology - https://www.museumoftransology.com/ Outside project Fundraiser - https://chuffed.org/project/transpower?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaZueH6yvIgU8sc1RRgqITk0kzVQcCC6fk_x0Rv9hUALRNVSQ1ie41LGSDA_aem_YOItI8WEJTZ2fk29UWckiQ A Whole Orange Matchmaking stuff - https://linktr.ee/awholeorange…

Today I answered some questions from the queer social app Lex on how much to care early in dating, what to do when feeling hopeless about dating and the best places to meet people!Links: https://linktr.ee/awholeorange

THE FIRST PROPER ADVICE EPISODE OF THE NEW SEASON - ENJOY! FIND LINKS HERE - https://linktr.ee/awholeorange

apologies for not so good audio quality Hello, I had some things to talk about and some thoughts to get out of my head - I talk about queer community, local community, what capitalism is doing to humans and to cities, try and get inside the logic of people who are exploit others and hoard wealth and have a very healthy breakdown :) If you're looking for love advice - look elsewhere this time I love you all <3 Looking for support: Go here - https://londonlgbtqcentre.org/ Look/call here - https://switchboard.lgbt/…

Talking about the butch femme dynamic, why it can seem like the only way to be, and why it isn't! Oh and how to have a one night stand without sacrificing your favourite events & venues Links - https://linktr.ee/awholeorange

A stripped back podcast to help me get over my perfectionism, the jingle is lost but the wisdom is there - listen for tips on where to start with queer dating, what to expect and also some chatting about relationship slumps and how to get connected again <3 Find everything you could need here - https://linktr.ee/awholeorange Join the Whatsapp group for event updates - https://chat.whatsapp.com/FJLeZsugQDTBxrfVmifQBF Send in your love advice questions - https://forms.gle/Tj4RPMrEVaTPRwJb7…

In this episode I talk to Yaz (she-ish/her-ish) about her dating life in a reconnect to dating session! Yaz is a consulatant on Equality, Equity, Diversity and Inclusion with expertise in LGBTQ+ and race issues - she works with companies to help them improve, and uses her social media to educate too, as well as a space to share her personal experiences to help others Find Yaz here - https://linktr.ee/YazConfrontingChange Looking for Advice? Submit your questions here- https://forms.gle/y12ix8Jkzk6dFiMq7 Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/awholeorange/ The transcript can be found in the blog on the website! Website : https://urawholeorange.wixsite.com/queerconnection Email : urawholeorange@gmail.com…

Hey, podcast editing is hard - While I work on the MULTIPLE episodes I have in process, I wanted to throw in a little bonus episode to share some of my thoughts on basic truths for dating - very off the cuff, just letting you peek into my brain on this one :) If you can edit podcasts, please get in touch... I need ur help :D…

It's the long-awaited episode where I talk to the lovely Santi about queer dating and aesthetic, style, gender presentation, gender fluidity and what G(end)erswap is up to atm! G(end)erSwap - https://genderswap.org/ Looking for Advice? Submit your questions here- https://forms.gle/y12ix8Jkzk6dFiMq7 Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/awholeorange/ The transcript can be found in the blog on the website! Website : https://urawholeorange.wixsite.com/queerconnection Email : urawholeorange@gmail.com…

In this episode, I show you the ways in which you are your own fuck boi, and some tips to dump the inner fuck boi! Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/awholeorange/ The transcript can be found in the blog on the website! Website : https://urawholeorange.wixsite.com/queerconnection Email : urawholeorange@gmail.com…

In this episode, I take you through the process of self-exploration to uncover what you want out of dating and how to show people who you are in a dating app bio, or a zine to take part in ZINE DATING! Listen if you want some help reconnecting to dating, or just want a more unique and useful dating profile! I also share my impossible match of the month! share my impossible match of the month! Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/awholeorange/ The transcript and the print out can be found in the blog on the website! Website : https://urawholeorange.wixsite.com/queerconnection Email : urawholeorange@gmail.com show less…