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Blog: Listen from Within: How to Hear, Trust, and Follow Your Inner Wisdom 14:35

منذ 5 أيام14:35

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Summary In this conversation, Tonya Harris Cornileus, Ph.D., explores the importance of listening to, trusting, and following one's inner wisdom . She shares personal experiences and insights on how to reconnect with this inner voice, emphasizing practices like quiet reflection, journaling, and meditation. Quotes from Oprah and philosopher William B. Irvine help to ground this article in the power of Aha! Moments. The discussion highlights the journey of self-trust and the transformative power of acting on inner guidance, ultimately encouraging listeners to create space for their inner voice and take aligned actions in their lives. Keywords inner wisdom, inner voice, self-trust, personal growth, intuition, life transitions, spiritual guidance, self-awareness, mindfulness, personal development, leadership Takeaways Your inner voice speaks to you; will you listen? Listening more closely can reveal powerful insights. Trusting your inner voice is a journey back to self. Your inner wisdom knows what's true before your mind does. Creating space in your life helps you hear your inner voice. Practices like journaling and meditation can enhance self-awareness. Rebuilding trust in yourself is essential for personal growth. Following your inner voice leads to living in alignment. Insight requires action to transform your life. Courage is needed to follow your inner voice. Sound Bites "Trust and believe in yourself." "Insight alone isn't enough." "Create space to hear it, trust it." Chapters 00:00 Listening to Your Inner Wisdom 05:41 Hearing Your Inner Voice: How to Recognize the Wisdom Within 08:32 Trusting Your Inner Voice: Reclaiming Your Inner Authority 11:13 Following Your Inner Voice: Living in Alignment Thank you for listening. I truly appreciate you! I invite you to follow Your Aha! Life - The Podcast. Hit the notifications bell so that you're the first to know when a new episode or audio blog is released. Leave a review, comment, or send me an email to let me know what you think of this audio blog or the podcast. XO, Tonya…

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Ep. 53: Why Adaptability is the #1 Skill for the Future 28:36

منذ 5 weeks28:36

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Summary In this episode, Tonya Harris Cornileus, Ph.D., discusses the critical importance of adaptability as a skill for the future. She explores how rapid changes in technology, work environments, and societal norms necessitate a mindset of adaptability. Through personal anecdotes and insights from futurists, she emphasizes the need for individuals to strengthen their adaptability skills to thrive in an ever-evolving landscape. The episode concludes with practical strategies for cultivating adaptability in daily life. Keywords adaptability, change, future skills, personal development, resilience, AI, lifelong learning, leadership, technology, mindset Takeaways Adaptability is essential for navigating rapid changes. The pace of change is accelerating, especially with technology. Adaptability is about long-term adjustments, not just quick reactions. Personal experiences, like the pandemic, highlight the need for adaptability. Futurists agree that adaptability is the top skill for the future. Jobs and roles are evolving faster than ever before. Technology is transforming industries and requires adaptability. Building a support network enhances adaptability. Practicing mindfulness and reflection can strengthen adaptability. Embracing discomfort is key to developing adaptability. Sound Bites "Adopt technology mindfully." "Community helps us to grow." "You have the strength to adapt." Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Adaptability 01:22 Setting the Stage: The World is Changing Fast 05:48 What is Adaptability, Really? 12:21 The Research: Why it's #1 15:00 What Makes Adaptability So Essential 17:43 Practical Ways to Cultivate Adaptability 25:33 Your Season of Growth and Resilience…

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Blog: Redefining Success: Navigate Your Next Chapter with Confidence 11:08

منذ 7 weeks11:08

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Summary In this episode, Tonya Harris Cornileus, Ph.D., invites listeners to rethink their definitions of success and navigate their next life chapters with confidence. She emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, reflection on personal values, and the courage to redefine success on one's own terms. Through her personal journey and insights, she encourages listeners to embrace transitions as opportunities for growth and reinvention. Keywords success, personal growth, transitions, self-awareness, life coaching, redefining success, confidence, authenticity, values, purpose, self-belief Takeaways Redefining success is a personal journey. Self-awareness is crucial in understanding what success means to you. Transitions in life are opportunities for growth. Reflect on past experiences to shape future success. Values and priorities may shift over time. Fear and self-doubt are natural, but can be managed. Success should align with your true self. Your life is your canvas; define it as you wish. Living authentically leads to fulfillment. Engage with a community for support in your journey. Sound Bites "You are the artist of your life." "Reflect on what life has taught you." "Your new definition of success." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Redefining Success 03:57 The Journey of Self-Reflection 05:03 Redefining Success Start with Self-Awareness 06:49 What Does Success Mean to You Now? 07:27 How to Redefine Success in Your Next Chapter 09:43 Embracing Your New Definition of Success 10:38 Your New Definition of Success Thank you so much for listening to Your Aha! Life - The Podcast. If you're not a subscriber, I invite you to subscribe today. Check the notifications so you'll never miss a new episode, and share this podcast with your friends. I welcome your feedback. Leave a comment and/or email me at tonya@yourahalife.com. I answer all messages. XO, Tonya…

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Blog: Appreciative Joy: How to Genuinely Celebrate Others' Success 14:52

منذ 7 weeks14:52

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Summary In this episode, Tonya Harris Cornileus, Ph.D., explores the concept of Appreciative Joy, emphasizing the importance of celebrating others' successes without falling into the traps of comparison and self-doubt. She discusses the detrimental effects of a scarcity mindset and offers insights on how to cultivate an abundance mindset that allows for genuine joy in others' achievements. Through relatable real-life scenarios, she illustrates the common feelings of envy and uncertainty, and provides practical steps to practice Appreciative Joy in daily life. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to engage in their own journey of cultivating joy and community support. Keywords appreciative joy, abundance mindset, scarcity mindset, self-doubt, comparison, emotional generosity, celebrate others, personal growth, mindfulness, personal development Takeaways Appreciative joy helps you celebrate others' successes without feeling a sense of comparison. A scarcity mindset leads to self-doubt and emotional withdrawal. An abundance mindset fosters collaboration and trust. Real-life scenarios highlight common feelings of comparison. Practicing appreciative joy can shift our emotional state. Celebrating others can free us from the grip of competition. Joy multiplies when shared with others. Recognizing our own timeline is crucial for personal growth. Appreciative joy is a practice that requires awareness and practice. Sound Bites "Their light doesn't dim yours." "Their win is not my loss." "Your AHA life is growing." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Appreciative Joy 02:37 Understanding Scarcity Mindset 04:06 The Scarcity Mindset: When We Believe There's Not Enough 05:16 The Concept of Appreciative Joy 07:17 Real-Life Scenarios of Comparison 12:21 Cultivating an Abundance Mindset 13:44 Practical Steps to Practice Appreciative Joy 15:12 Call to Action and Community Engagement Thank you for listening to this latest audio blog. If you are enjoying Your Aha! Life - the Podcast, then please subscribe, follow, comment, and share so that this podcast can continue to grow and reach many more people. If there is a topic you'd love for me to cover, send me a quick note at tonya@yourahalife.com or leave a comment. I wish you more joy, more purpose, and more fulfillment. XO, Tonya…

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Blog: Self-Affirmation: What You Tell Yourself Matters 16:43

منذ 7 weeks16:43

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Summary In this episode of Your Aha! Life, Tonya Harris Cornileus, Ph.D., explores the transformative power of self-affirmation. She discusses how our inner dialogue shapes our self-perception and influences our actions. Through practical steps and insights from self-affirmation theory, Tonya encourages listeners to shift their mindset and embrace positive affirmations to foster personal growth and confidence. She shares how self-affirmation can shift your mindset as you navigate transitions, helping you move from self-doubt to possibility. Keywords self-affirmation, inner dialogue, personal growth, mindset, confidence, self-belief, positive thinking, personal development, self-improvement, mental health, transitions Takeaways Self-affirmation can shift your mindset and help you achieve breakthroughs. Your inner dialogue influences your confidence and choices. Affirmations help anchor your sense of identity during challenging times. The words you speak to yourself shape your beliefs and actions. Affirmations should reflect your personal truth and core values. Consistency in affirmations rewires your brain for positivity. Speak in present tense and positive language for effectiveness. Pair affirmations with small intentional actions for alignment. Your inner dialogue can move you from fear to possibility. Start with one affirmation to begin your journey of self-discovery. Sound Bites "What you tell yourself matters." "Your inner dialogue shapes how you see yourself." "Affirmations help anchor you." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Self-Affirmation 04:19 The Power of Inner Dialogue 09:46 The Science Behind Self-Affirmation 11:40 Why What You Say to Yourself Matters 13:12 How to Use Affirmations to Change Your Inner Dialogue 13:21 Practical Steps for Effective Affirmations 16:45 Call to Action: Start Your Affirmation Journey Thanks so much for listening to this audio blog. I'd love your feedback. Leave a comment or send me a note at tonya@yourahalife.com. I wish you more joy, more purpose, and more fulfillment. XO, Tonya…

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Blog: How to Stop Shrinking and Show Up Authentically in Life and Career 11:28

منذ 7 weeks11:28

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Summary In this episode, Tonya Harris Cornileus, Ph.D., discusses the importance of showing up authentically in life and career. She explores the concept of 'shrinking'—the tendency to downplay one's true self to fit in—and its detrimental effects on confidence and self-expression. Tonya provides actionable steps to embrace authenticity, encouraging listeners to recognize their unique value and take small steps towards self-acceptance and expression. Keywords authenticity, self-expression, personal growth, career development, self-acceptance, confidence, overcoming fear, leadership, personal development, community support Takeaways Many people feel the need to shrink to fit in. Shrinking can manifest in subtle ways. Fear of judgment often leads to shrinking. Suppressing your true self erodes confidence. The world needs your unique voice and ideas. Awareness is the first step to change. Authenticity means living in alignment with your values. Small acts of self-expression can build confidence. Surround yourself with supportive people. Embrace your authenticity and take action. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Authenticity 02:17 Understanding Shrinking and Its Impact 02:51 What Shrinking Looks Like 04:49 Why We Shrink and What it Costs Us 06:37 How to Stop Shrinking and Show Up Authentically 10:33 Blog Close_05042024.mp4…

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Blog: The Courage to Start Over: Overcoming Setbacks & Rejection 15:28

منذ 8 weeks15:28

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Summary In this episode, Tonya Harris Cornileus, Ph.D., discusses the courage required to start over after setbacks and rejection. She emphasizes the importance of resilience, reframing rejection as redirection, and embracing new beginnings, whether chosen or unexpected. Through personal anecdotes and motivational insights, she encourages listeners to recognize their inner strength and take bold actions toward their goals. Keywords courage, resilience, setbacks, rejection, new beginnings, self-belief, personal growth, overcoming failure, life transitions, empowerment Takeaways Starting over requires courage, whether by choice or circumstance. Rejection can be reframed as redirection, not failure. Every new beginning demands bravery and resilience. Life is filled with both chosen and unexpected beginnings. The pain of rejection can shake our confidence but does not define us. Self-belief is crucial in overcoming setbacks and failures. Playing small can lead to a life of regret. Reflecting on past triumphs can build self-belief. Setbacks can be seen as stepping stones to greatness. Taking bold action is essential for personal growth. Sound Bites "You are braver than you think." "Every new beginning demands courage." "Playing small costs you everything." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Starting Over 00:55 The Courage to Start Again 04:12 The Two Sides of Starting Over: By Choice and By Circumstance 06:57 The Pain of Rejection and How to Reframe It 09:50 The Cost of Playing Small 11:37 Looking Back at Your Own Triumphs 12:48 Call to Action: Your Next Step Forward…

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Ep. 52 Your Next Chapter Begins with an Abundance Mindset 24:53

منذ 10 weeks24:53

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Summary In this episode, Tonya Harris Cornileus, Ph.D., shares her personal journey toward embracing an abundance mindset as she approaches retirement. She discusses the challenges posed by a scarcity mindset and how it can hinder personal growth and fulfillment. By identifying two personas—the in-between transitioner and the hesitant dreamer—she emphasizes the importance of shifting perspectives to embrace opportunities. Tonya provides practical strategies to cultivate an abundance mindset, encouraging listeners to trust their journey and recognize that their best days are still ahead. Takeaways Scarcity mindset can stop us from moving forward. We can shift our mindset from scarcity to abundance. An abundance mindset opens up possibilities and opportunities. Your best work may still be ahead of you. You don't need to have everything figured out to start. Three practices can help you shift from a scarcity mindset to an abundance mindset. Anchor to your core values makes it easier to say yes to the right next steps Reconnect with your vision and let yourself imagine that future with boldness and hope Practicing gratitude and affirmations can help cultivate abundance. Your next chapter is not a detour; it's part of your becoming. Sound Bites "Now is my time." "Your best work is still ahead of you." "Abundance feels like trust." "Your moment is now." "Shift from scarcity into abundance." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Abundance Mindset 02:08Personal Journey and Retirement Announcement 04:24Understanding Scarcity Mindset 08:43Transitioning with an Abundance Mindset 12:14Identifying Personas: In-Between Transitioner and Hesitant Dreamer 15:30Characteristics of an Abundance Mindset 22:50Practices to Cultivate Abundance Mindset…

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Ep. 51 The Confidence to Take Up Space in Life and Leadership 32:15

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Summary In this episode of Your Aha Life, Tonya Harris Cornileus, Ph.D., explores the mindset and psychology behind why individuals often play small and how they can reclaim their confidence and take up space in their lives and leadership roles. The discussion emphasizes the importance of self-belief, integrity, and resilience, and provides practical steps to overcome psychological barriers that prevent individuals from fully expressing themselves. Through personal anecdotes and reflective exercises, listeners are encouraged to recognize their worth and embrace their authentic selves. Keywords confidence, self-belief, personal growth, leadership, authenticity, taking up space, resilience, empowerment, mindset, psychology Takeaways The journey to confidence involves recognizing when we play small. Taking up space means being mentally, emotionally, and energetically present. Societal conditioning often teaches us to shrink ourselves. Past experiences can lead to a fear of being too much or not enough. Imposter syndrome can hinder our ability to take up space. We often seek approval before expressing ourselves. Confidence comes from within, not from external validation. Taking up space is about owning your presence and voice. Practical steps can help build confidence and reclaim space. Reflecting on how to take up space can lead to personal growth. Sound Bites "We moderate too darn much sometimes." "Have you ever dimmed your own light?" "You don't need approval to be yourself." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Confidence and Taking Up Space 07:15 Understanding the Conditioning to Play Small 17:37 The Meaning of Taking Up Space 22:56 Psychological Reasons for Shrinking 26:49 Practical Steps to Build Confidence 29:36 Closing Thoughts and Call to Action…

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Ep.50 The Hidden Power of Life's In-Between Moments 18:37

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Summary In this episode, Tonya Harris Cornileus, Ph.D., explores the often overlooked 'in-between' moments in life, emphasizing their significance in personal growth and transformation. She discusses her own experiences of navigating transitions in her career and life and introduces the concept of the 'neutral zone' from William Bridges' transition model. The conversation highlights the importance of patience, self-reflection, and embracing uncertainty as essential components of the journey toward clarity and fulfillment. Keywords life transitions, personal growth, in-between moments, self-discovery, patience, transformation, career changes, emotional resilience, William Bridges model, self-renewal Takeaways The in-between moments are crucial for personal growth. Patience is an active choice during transitions. The neutral zone is a fertile ground for creativity. Self-renewal occurs in the in-between spaces. Embracing uncertainty can lead to profound transformation. Micro wins should be celebrated during transitions. Self-discovery is a key aspect of the in-between. The in-between is not idle time; it's a time of preparation. Reflecting on what we learn about ourselves is vital. The in-between may be the most important part of our journey. Sound Bites "Don't rush to fill that space." "Growth isn't always loud." "Patience is not passive." Chapters 00:00 Welcome to Season Five 00:49 The Hidden Power of In-Between Moments 06:21 Understanding the Neutral Zone 09:10 Embracing the In-Between 12:35 Strategies for Navigating In-Between Moments 15:59 The Importance of the In-Between Journey Thanks for being with me to start Season 5 of Your Aha! Life - The Podcast. This is also my 50th episode. I appreciate you listening and sharing with your friends. If you love the podcast or this episode, please leave a great review and hit the follow button. If you're not a member of the Your Aha! Global Community, subscribe by going to the Your Aha! Life website. You'll receive a gift, a monthly subscription to the newsletter, access to my private Facebook group, The Aha! Community, tools to navigate life and career transitions, and other member perks.…

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Blog: Do Something: How to Turn Empathy into Compassionate Activism 12:02

منذ 17 weeks12:02

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Summary In this conversation, Dr. Tonya Harris Cornileus discusses the vital distinction between empathy and compassion, emphasizing that while empathy allows us to feel the pain of others, it is compassion that drives us to take action. She encourages listeners to engage in compassionate activism through small, consistent actions in their daily lives, highlighting that every effort, no matter how small, contributes to a larger ripple effect of change. The conversation serves as a call to action for individuals to reflect on their values and find ways to support their communities. Keywords compassion, empathy, activism, community, change, social justice, kindness, daily actions, ripple effect, personal growth Takeaways Compassion rooted in love is about showing up consistently. Empathy helps us feel, but compassion urges us to respond. Compassionate activism can be quiet, personal, and deeply local. Opportunities for compassionate activism are often closer than we think. Compassionate activism isn't a one-time act, it's a practice. Small actions done regularly have a cumulative impact. Your actions can be the spark that lights the way for others. The world needs compassionate hearts willing to act. Every act of compassion contributes to a greater ripple of change. Find your own way to make a difference. Sound Bites "Find your own Calcutta." "Stay consistent, stay hopeful." "Be the pebble that starts the ripple." Chapters 00:00 The Call to Action: From Empathy to Compassion 03:31 Why Empathy Isn't Enough 04:45 Compassionate Activism: Making it Accessible 06:11 Opportunities for Compassion are Everywhere 08:16 Making Compassion a Way of Life 09:26 Call to Action: Your Aha! Life Click the link to learn more about the Your Aha! Life movement and sign up to become a member. If you enjoy listening to my audio blogs and podcasts, please leave a review, subscribe, and share with your friends. By doing so, you'll be that pebble that leads to a ripple beyond what you can ever see. Thank you.…

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Blog: How to Find a Mentor: What to Look For and How to Ask 16:09

منذ 20 weeks16:09

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Summary In this conversation, Tonya Harris Cornileus, Ph.D., discusses the significance of mentorship, especially during National Mentoring Month. She shares her personal experiences with mentors and emphasizes the transformative power of these relationships. The discussion covers how to find a mentor, what qualities to look for, how to approach potential mentors and the importance of being a proactive mentee. Tonya encourages listeners to reflect on their needs and take actionable steps toward establishing meaningful mentoring relationships to support their personal and professional growth. Keywords mentorship, finding a mentor, mentoring relationship, personal growth, career development, professional guidance, mentee, mentor qualities, mentorship benefits, mentoring process Takeaways Mentorship can be life-changing at any stage of life. A mentor should align with your values and goals. Building a relationship with a potential mentor is crucial. Be specific when asking someone to be your mentor. Meaningful conversations deepen the mentoring relationship. A great mentee prepares and takes action on advice. Respect your mentor's time and be focused in meetings. Vulnerability fosters trust in the mentoring relationship. Giving back to your mentor enriches the experience for both. Finding a mentor is a proactive step toward growth. Sound Bites "Finding the right mentor is worth the effort." "Mentorship is a relationship, not a transaction." "Finding a mentor may feel intimidating at first." Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Mentorship 04:09 Finding the Right Mentor 04:52 When to Engage a Mentor 05:58 What to Look for in a Great Mentor 06:54 How to Approach and Ask Someone to be Your Mentor 08:57 Question to Ask a Mentor 10:30 How to Be a Great Mentee 13:48 Call to Action Thank you for listening to Your Aha! Life - The Podcast, where I share insightful stories through the podcast and my audio blogs. Please take a moment to subscribe and hit the notifications button so you'll be notified anytime I drop a new episode. Also, leave a review and share this episode with someone you know who would benefit from hearing it. To learn more about Your Aha! Life and join the global community: go to my website at yourahalife.com. You can also follow me on Instagram @tonya.yourahalife.…

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Blog: Choose Your Word of the Year to Change Your Life in 2025 10:42

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Summary In this conversation, Dr. Tonya Harris Cornileus discusses the transformative practice of choosing a Word of the Year, emphasizing its power to inspire and guide individuals throughout the year. She shares her word for 2025, equanimity, and offers practical tips on incorporating this word into daily life to foster intentional living and personal growth. The discussion highlights the importance of reflection, visual reminders, and community support in making the chosen word meaningful in one's life. Keywords Word of the Year, Equanimity, Intentional Living, Personal Growth, Mindfulness, Reflection, Daily Practices, Inner Peace, Self-Discovery, Life Coaching Takeaways Choosing a Word of the Year can inspire and guide you. A word serves as a guiding light, unlike rigid resolutions. Words shape how we see ourselves and the world. Equanimity represents inner harmony and balance. Incorporate your word into daily practices for impact. Visual reminders keep your word at the forefront. Reflect daily on how your word can guide you. Sharing your word creates accountability and inspiration. Revisit your word's relevance throughout the year. Join a community for support in intentional living. Chapters 00:00 Choosing Your Word of the Year 02:05 The Power of a Word 03:01 My Word for 2025: Equanimity 04:16 How to Bring Your Word to Life 06:41 What's Your Word? 07:35 Books to Explore Equanimity and Inner Balance 08:25 Call to Action Loved this audio blog? Click to follow so you don't miss an episode, leave a review, and share it with your friends. Thanks!…

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Blog: How to Become Your Future Self in Five Simple Steps 13:14

منذ 22 weeks13:14

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Summary In this episode of Your Aha Life, Dr. Tonya Harris Cornileus discusses the journey of personal growth and how to become your future self through five intentional steps. She emphasizes the importance of small, meaningful actions and consistency in shaping one's future. The conversation covers visualization, reflection on the present, identifying areas for growth, creating a roadmap, and the power of consistency in achieving personal transformation. Dr. Cornileus encourages listeners to take actionable steps toward their future selves and to join a supportive community for ongoing growth. Keywords personal growth, future self, intentionality, self-improvement, roadmap, consistency, visualization, reflection, small actions, community Takeaways Your personal growth journey is shaped by small, intentional choices. Becoming your future self is about intentionality, not perfection. Who you're becoming matters just as much as what you're doing. Only 8% of people achieve their goals; focus on becoming instead. Clarity about who you wish to be is essential for growth. Visualize your future self to create a mental map. Reflect on your present to understand your starting point. Identify key areas for growth and focus on them deeply. Create a roadmap with actionable steps for your future self. Consistency in small actions leads to significant transformation. Chapters 00:00 Becoming Your Future Self: An Introduction 04:39 Five Steps to Your Future Self 09:35 Consistency and Small Actions for Growth 12:19 Call to Action and Close Resource for You: ⁠Your Aha! Life Journey Accelerator: Future Self Roadmap⁠ Books referenced: Atomic Habits by James Clear Personality Is Not Permanent by Benjamin Hardy, Ph.D. Manifest by Roxie Nafousi Don't miss an episode -- subscribe now for insights, stories, and actionable tools to live Your Aha! Life - one filled with joy, purpose, and fulfillment and loved this? Great! Leave a review and share it with your friends. Finally, if you want to connect with me, follow me on Instagram @tonya.yourahalife. Thanks!!…

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49. Unscript Your Life: Break Free from Overthinking and Overplanning 21:14

منذ 23 weeks21:14

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Summary In this episode, Tonya Harris Cornileus, Ph.D., discusses the detrimental effects of overthinking and overplanning in our lives. She emphasizes the importance of finding a balance between planning and spontaneity, sharing personal anecdotes and practical examples. The episode provides strategies to recognize and break free from these patterns, encouraging listeners to embrace an unscripted life filled with unexpected joys and experiences. Keywords overthinking, overplanning, mindfulness, spontaneity, life balance, personal growth, stress management, self-discovery, joy, freedom Takeaways Overthinking and overplanning can lead to stress and anxiety. Finding balance is key to enjoying life. Life is unpredictable; embrace the unexpected. Recognizing patterns of overthinking is the first step. Mindfulness can help ground us in the present. Setting flexible intentions allows for spontaneity. Scheduling unplanned time can lead to joy. Trusting the process can alleviate the need for control. Celebrating unplanned moments enriches our experiences. Living unscripted can lead to greater freedom and joy. Sound Bites "What if we just go off script?" "Trust the process and trust yourself." "Schedule unplanned time for spontaneity." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Unscripted Living 03:30 Understanding Overthinking and Overplanning 08:03 Examples of Overthinking and Overplanning 11:50 Recognizing Patterns of Overthinking and Overplanning 15:18 Strategies to Break Free from Overthinking and Overplanning 19:27 Embracing an Unscripted Life Thank you for listening to Your Aha! Life - The Podcast. This concludes Season 4! If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review, comment, and share with your friends. Remember to hit the follow button to receive notice when new episodes or audio blogs are posted. I'm excited to return for Season 5!…

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48. Forgiveness: Letting Go to Move Forward 37:14

منذ 27 weeks37:14

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Summary In this episode, Dr. Tonya Harris Cornileus explores the profound and often challenging topic of forgiveness. She shares her personal journey and insights on how forgiveness can free us from past hurts and allow us to embrace our future selves. The conversation delves into the complexities of self-forgiveness, the impact of unresolved grievances on our lives, and practical steps to cultivate forgiveness. Dr. Cornileus emphasizes that forgiveness is not about condoning past actions but about releasing the emotional burdens that hold us back from living fully and authentically. Keywords forgiveness, self-forgiveness, personal growth, emotional healing, letting go, future self, mental health, personal development, spirituality, resilience Takeaways Forgiveness is a powerful way to free ourselves. We often hold ourselves back from our future selves. Self-forgiveness is one of the hardest forms of forgiveness. Holding onto past wounds affects us mentally and physically. Forgiveness is about releasing pain, not excusing actions. We must acknowledge our hurt to begin the healing process. Gratitude can help us navigate our deepest hurts. Seeking support is essential in the forgiveness journey. Forgiveness is a personal journey that requires reflection. Letting go is an act of self-love and empowerment. Sound Bites "Let it go, let it go." "Forgiveness is an act of self-love." "Forgiveness is rarely a simple act." Chapters 00:00 The Power of Forgiveness 10:21 Personal Stories and Reflections on Forgiveness 19:52 Forgiving Yourself: The Hardest Journey 27:12 Forgiveness Beyond People: Experiences and God 32:23 Ways to Let Go and Move Forward The book and podcast referenced in the episode: The Gift of Forgiveness by Katherine Schwarzenegger Pratt. Thank you for listening to Your Aha! Life - the Podcast. If you love it, please leave a review, follow or subscribe, and share it with your friends. XO, Tonya…

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47. Embracing the Single Life: Thriving While Staying Open to Love 15:24

منذ 27 weeks15:24

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Summary In this episode, Tonya Harris Cornileus, Ph.D., explores the journey of embracing singlehood and thriving while remaining open to love. She shares her personal experiences after a long marriage, discussing the emotional landscape of being single, the importance of self-love, and practical actions to enhance one's single life. The conversation emphasizes that being single is not a waiting period but an opportunity for growth and self-discovery, encouraging listeners to embrace their individuality and prepare for future relationships. Keywords single life, self-love, personal growth, relationships, emotional well-being, thriving, hope, self-discovery, empowerment, love, romantic relationships, healthy relationships Takeaways Real love starts with self-love. The single life is a great season for growth. Pay attention to red flags in relationships. Hope is a choice; believe that love is possible. You're better off alone than settling. Living the single life isn't a limitation. Your worth is not defined by your relationship status. Keep your heart open while thriving as a single. Clarify what you want in a partner and your non-negotiables. Sound Bites "Real love starts with self-love." "You're better off alone than settling." Chapters 00:00 Embracing the Single Life 07:19 Lessons Learned in Singlehood 11:16 Actions for Thriving as a Single Person 13:38 Conclusion: The Opportunity of Singlehood Thank you for listening. If you enjoy this podcast, please take a moment to leave a positive review and share it with your friends. Thank you!…

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Blog: From Grief to Action: Healing and Moving Forward 15:06

منذ 28 weeks15:06

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Summary In this conversation, Tonya Harris Cornileus, Ph.D., explores the themes of grief, healing, and taking action in the face of disappointment and division. Drawing from personal experiences and insights, she emphasizes the importance of resilience, compassion, and community support. The discussion provides practical steps for navigating emotional challenges and encourages listeners to reflect on their own responses to grief and to take meaningful actions toward healing and positive change. Keywords grief, healing, compassion, resilience, emotional management, personal growth, community, positive change, self-reflection, U.S. elections, connection, positive change Takeaways Grief is a natural response to life's challenges. Healing involves sitting with emotions and learning from them. Compassion is essential for personal and communal healing. Fear often hides behind grief and anger. Choosing love over hate can lead to transformative change. Acts of compassion can create ripples of healing. Practical steps can help navigate emotional challenges. Gratitude can shift our perspective even in tough times. We can choose a path of understanding and growth. Every small action matters in creating positive change. Sound Bites "Start where you are." "Hate is too heavy to carry." "Your actions matter." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Grief and Action 04:13 A Personal Reckoning 05:44 Moving from Reaction to Action 06:28 Lessons for Living Your Best Life Amid Disappointment 10:59 Practical Steps for Healing and Moving Forward 12:31 Final Thoughts 13:01 Call to Action Thanks again for listening. Though this blog article may seem like a departure from what Your Aha! Life is all about, it really isn't. Part of living our best lives is living authentically and learning to navigate when things don't turn out as we might have expected or hoped. How do we move forward toward a life of more joy, more purpose, and more fulfillment - not only for ourselves but also for our families, our communities, workplaces, and our world. I hope you enjoy listening and feel committed to taking compassionate action. Please leave a review, subscribe, and share Your Aha! Life with your friends. You're helping YAL grow its reach and positively impact the world. Thank you! XO, Tonya…

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Blog: Trust Yourself: You're On the Right Path 10:26

منذ 28 weeks10:26

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Summary In this episode of Your Aha! Life, Tonya Harris Cornileus shares her reflections from a transformative trip to Sedona and the Grand Canyon. She emphasizes the importance of trusting oneself during times of uncertainty and change, illustrating her journey of self-discovery and clarity through nature. The conversation encourages listeners to embrace their paths, recognizing that every experience contributes to personal growth and understanding. Keywords trust, journey, clarity, Sedona, Grand Canyon, self-discovery, nature, personal growth, life changes, introspection, life transitions Takeaways Trust yourself wherever you are on your path. There is no wrong path; the path is the path. Nature provides wisdom that helps us find clarity. Embrace the uncertainty and beauty of each step. Your journey is unfolding exactly as it should. Listen to your inner voice for guidance. Each route offers its own scenery and lessons. Everything is taken care of, as it has been for millions of years. You are on the right path, even in times of doubt. Join a community for support on your journey. Sound Bites "I realized everything is taken care of." "Trust yourself, you will be fine." "You're already on the right path." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Trusting Your Path 02:39 Embracing Your Path 03:30 A Journey to Sedona for Clarity 05:36 Epiphany at the Grand Canyon 07:44 An Invitation to Trust Your Path 08:27 Call to Action…

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Blog: Help Wanted: How to Give and Receive Support on Life's Journey 12:24

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Summary In this conversation, Tonya Harris Cornileus, Ph.D., explores the theme of help and support in our lives. She reflects on the importance of both giving and receiving help, emphasizing that our journeys are enriched by the assistance of others. The discussion highlights the interconnectedness of individuals and the joy found in mutual support, as well as practical tips for fostering a supportive community. Keywords help, support, community, reciprocity, personal growth, gratitude, life journey, mentorship, interdependence, kindness Takeaways Help is a recurring theme in our lives. We are supported by various individuals throughout our journey. Success is not achieved in isolation; we rely on others. Every person we meet has a role in our growth. Help can come from both obvious and unexpected sources. Acts of kindness enrich our lives and those of others. Reciprocity is essential in giving and receiving help. Asking for help is a strength, not a weakness. Reflecting on our helpers can enhance our gratitude. Being a helper can make a significant difference in someone's life. Chapters 00:00 The Power of Help 05:49 How Help Shows Up 07:41 The Circle of Help: How Giving and Receiving are Intertwined 08:36 How to Ask for and Offer Help 09:45 The Beauty of Help: Finding Joy and Fulfillment in Lifting Each Other Up 10:12 Call to Action If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a positive review, and share it with your friends. That's how Your Aha! Life can reach others. Thank you.…

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Blog: Move On: How to Overcome What Holds You Back 14:31

منذ 36 weeks14:31

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Keywords life transitions, overcoming fear, attachment, personal growth, moving on, self-compassion, change management, emotional resilience, identity, personal development Summary In this audio blog, Tonya Harris Cornileus, Ph.D., explores the challenges of moving on from life's transitions, focusing on the forces of attachment and fear that often hold us back. She discusses how these forces manifest in our identities, expectations, and emotional states, and offers strategies for overcoming them. By acknowledging our attachments, facing our fears, and staying open to new possibilities, we can take meaningful steps toward personal growth and fulfillment. Takeaways Life transitions can be challenging and often require guidance. Attachment and fear are two powerful forces that hold us back. Understanding our attachments is the first step to moving on. Fear of the unknown can create significant barriers to change. We often romanticize the past, making it harder to embrace the present. Our identities can become cages that prevent us from evolving. Letting go of rigid expectations allows for new opportunities. Self-doubt amplifies fear and can hinder our progress. Taking small steps can help build confidence and reduce fear. Moving on is about becoming who you are meant to be. Chapters 00:00 How to Move On: Overcome What Holds You Back 04:34 Attachment 07:41 Fear and Doubt 09:23 How to Move On 11:47 Conclusion 12:28 Call to Action Are you enjoying listening to the audio blogs? Great! Thank you. Please take a moment to subscribe, leave a positive review, and then share it with your friends. Help me to grow Your Aha! Life.…

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46. Beyond the Grind: Why Hobbies are Key to a Joyful, Balanced Life 20:30

منذ 38 weeks20:30

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Summary In this episode, Tonya discusses the significance of hobbies in our lives, exploring why many people lack them and the profound impact this can have on mental health and personal fulfillment. She shares her personal journey of discovering hobbies, the barriers that prevent people from engaging in them, and the numerous benefits that come from making time for enjoyable activities. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to explore their own hobbies and embrace the joy they can bring. Takeaways 85% of people believe hobbies are important. Many people feel overcommitted and lack time for hobbies. Perfectionism can prevent us from starting new hobbies. Societal pressures prioritize productivity over relaxation. Hobbies help in self-exploration and personal identity. Engaging in hobbies can improve mental health and reduce stress. Hobbies provide opportunities for socialization and connection. Creative hobbies can reignite childhood passions. Hobbies contribute to personal growth and confidence. It's never too late to start exploring new hobbies. Sound Bites "Hobbies are essential for our mental health." "It's okay to suck at them as long as you're having fun." "Hobbies provide balance in our lives." Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Hobbies 03:37 Barriers to Having Hobbies 06:50 Personal Journey and Exploration of Hobbies 09:46 Impact of Not Having Hobbies 12:58 Benefits of Engaging in Hobbies 16:48 Call to Action: Explore Your Hobbies 19:39 Season 4 Close with Music.mp4…

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45. Five Essential Steps for Navigating Life's Crossroads 12:34

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Summary In this episode, Tonya Harris Cornileus, Ph.D. shares five essential steps for navigating life's crossroads. The first step is to pause and reflect, allowing the dust of confusion to settle and gaining clarity and perspective. The second step is to see clarity on your values, understanding what matters most to you and using them as a compass for decision-making. The third step is to gather information and seek advice, considering all options and seeking input from trusted sources. The fourth step is to visualize possible outcomes, emotionally connecting with each potential future. The fifth step is to take intentional action, moving forward with confidence and alignment with your values and goals. Takeaways When facing a crossroads, take the time to pause and reflect, allowing for clarity and perspective. Understanding your values is crucial for making decisions that align with who you truly are. Gather information and seek advice from trusted sources to make informed choices. Visualize possible outcomes to emotionally connect with each potential future. Take intentional action that aligns with your values and goals. Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Navigating Life's Crossroads 00:58 Step 1: Pause and Reflect 03:24 Step 2: Finding Clarity Through Values 03:53 Step 3: Gathering Information and Seeking Advice 06:43 Step 4: Visualizing Possible Outcomes 08:06 Step 5: Taking Intentional Action…

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Blog: Pause to Find Clarity and Direction 10:34

منذ 40 weeks10:34

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Summary In a fast-paced world, pausing at life's crossroads can reveal clarity and direction. The space between stimulus and response is where our power to choose lies. Pausing leads to unexpected yet insightful decisions. It allows the dust of confusion to settle and connects us with our deeper intuition. Cultivating pausing can be done through practices like mindfulness, setting intentions, listening to calming music, journaling, spending time in nature, and visualization. Embracing the pause can lead to significant decisions and a path of joy and fulfillment. Takeaways Pausing at life's crossroads can reveal clarity and direction. The space between stimulus and response is where our power to choose lies. Pausing leads to unexpected yet insightful decisions. Cultivating pausing can be done through practices like mindfulness, setting intentions, listening to calming music, journaling, spending time in nature, and visualization. Embracing the pause can lead to significant decisions and a path of joy and fulfillment. Sound Bites "In a fast-paced world, the most powerful decisions often come from moments of stillness." "Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response." "It was in that quiet space that clarity began to emerge." Chapters 00:00 The Power of Pausing in a Fast-Paced World 02:11 Pausing Leads to Clarity and Direction 04:33 How to Cultivate Pausing in Our Daily Lives Thanks for listening to my latest blog. If you enjoy listening to my audio blogs, please take a moment to leave a kind review, follow the podcast, and then share it with your friends. Thanks for helping me grow our Your Aha! Life community. Take good care. Tonya…

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Blog: Against All Odds: Turning Improbable Dreams into Incomparable Achievements 11:27

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Thank you so much for listening to my latest blog article. Please leave your feedback and share it with a friend today. Summary This week's blog article explores how we can turn our improbable dreams into incomparable achievements by harnessing our passion, gifts, and talents. Inspired by the determination of Olympic athletes and historical figures, the article encourages readers to believe in their dreams and themselves. It highlights the importance of passion, gifts and talents, focus, and an indomitable will in achieving success. The article also emphasizes the need to overcome obstacles and setbacks and to see them as opportunities for growth. It concludes by urging readers to take the first step towards their improbable dreams. Takeaways Believe in your dreams and yourself. Passion fuels perseverance Recognize and develop your gifts and talents Stay focused on your dream Have an indomitable will to achieve See obstacles as opportunities for growth Take the first step toward your dream Sound Bites "So many of our dreams at first may seem impossible, then they seem improbable, and then when we summon the will, they become inevitable." "Passion fuels perseverance and keeps us moving forward even when the odds are stacked against us." "An indomitable will is the unwavering determination to achieve your dreams, no matter how tough the journey gets." Interested in learning more about Your Aha! Life? Great! go to Your Aha! Life today and sign up. Follow me on IG @tonya.yourahalife.…

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Blog: Unlock the Hidden Power in Everyday Learning 14:24

منذ 46 weeks14:24

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Hi there, I've been recording these audio blogs for a few months now. How's it going? I welcome your feedback. Also, if you're enjoying the Your Aha! Life podcast (the blog and podcast episodes), please leave a great review and share the podcast with your friends. Please help us grow. Thanks so much! Summary Unlock the hidden power in everyday learning. From casual conversations to DIY projects and travel, our daily experiences are filled with opportunities to learn and grow. In this article, I encourage you to broaden your perspectives about being a lifelong learner and how to spot these opportunities to enhance your life. Takeaways Lifelong learning can be found in everyday experiences, from casual conversations to hobbies and travel. Curiosity and open-mindedness are key characteristics of lifelong learners. Lifelong learners actively seek out opportunities to learn and grow. The benefits of lifelong learning include physical, mental, emotional, social, and spiritual well-being. We can enrich our lives and enhance our well-being by embracing lifelong learning. Sound Bites "Somewhere along the way, I fell in love with learning." "Everyday learning moments. Lifelong learning can show up in the most ordinary moments if you just notice." "While passively taking in knowledge and growing our skills is good, we can do more. Lifelong learners actively seek out opportunities to learn." Chapters 00:00 Unlocking the Hidden Power in Everyday Learning 01:44 Personal Confession 03:06 Everyday Learning Moments 05:10 Recognizing Learning Opportunities 06:56 Embracing a Lifelong Learning Mindset 08:03 Becoming a Lifelong Learner 08:55 Characteristics of a Lifelong Learner 10:45 The Benefits of Lifelong Learning Join our Live Meet-Up with Tonya on July 31, 2024 at 7 PM ET via Zoom. Click the link to register today. The Power of Lifelong Learning - Live Meet-Up with Tonya I hope to see you there. Take good care. Tonya…

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Blog: Mastering Meaningful Conversations: Strengthen Relationships & Boost Joy 12:23

منذ 47 weeks12:23

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Summary Meaningful conversations have the power to strengthen relationships and bring joy and fulfillment. They go beyond superficial exchanges and touch the core of our human experience. Deep listening is the cornerstone of meaningful conversations, and techniques such as connecting with oneself, making time, minimizing distractions, and noticing the urge to move away can help develop this skill. Meaningful conversations can happen in any context, whether with loved ones, colleagues, or oneself. Tips for engaging in meaningful conversations include being brave and vulnerable, creating a safe space, being patient, and expressing gratitude. These conversations can transform relationships, deepen integrity, and provide a sense of connection and belonging. Takeaways Meaningful conversations go beyond superficial exchanges and touch the core of our human experience. Deep listening is the cornerstone of meaningful conversations and can be developed with practice and patience. Meaningful conversations can happen in any context, whether with loved ones, colleagues, or oneself. Tips for engaging in meaningful conversations include being brave and vulnerable, creating a safe space, being patient, and expressing gratitude. Meaningful conversations can transform relationships, deepen integrity, and provide a sense of connection and belonging. Sound Bites "Meaningful conversations hold the power to transform our lives." "Reflecting on my life, I often think about conversations I wish I had with my mother before she passed away." "Understanding the difference between discussion and dialogue is crucial for meaningful conversations." Chapters 00:00 Mastering Meaningful Conversations 02:35 What Makes A Conversation Meaningful? 03:11 Personal Reflections: Conversations That Matter 04:36 Understanding the Difference between Discussion and Dialogue 05:55 Deep Listening: The Key to Meaningful Conversations 07:38 Engaging in Meaningful Conversations in Different Contexts 08:36 Practical Tips for Meaningful Conversations 10:32 Call to Action…

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44. Stop Overestimating Others and Underestimating Yourself 22:00

منذ 48 weeks22:00

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Summary In this episode, Tonya explores the tendency to compare ourselves to others, why we do it, and its potentially negative impact on our self-confidence and self-worth. She discusses the social comparison theory, the imposter syndrome, and the prevalent images in media as reasons why we compare ourselves to others. Tonya also explains the difference between comparing ourselves to others, overestimating others, and underestimating ourselves. She provides examples of when comparison can be positive and offers tips on how to stop overestimating others and underestimating ourselves. Takeaways Comparing ourselves to others is a natural tendency, but it can be limiting and detrimental to our self-confidence and self-worth. There are instances when comparison can be positive, such as setting benchmarks, gaining perspective, and creating accountability. Overestimating others and underestimating ourselves can distort our perception, lower our self-esteem, lead to inaction, and cause emotional strain. To stop overestimating others and underestimating ourselves, we should recognize our strengths, practice self-compassion, set realistic goals, seek feedback, surround ourselves with positive influences, engage in self-development, and visualize success. We should avoid unfair and inaccurate comparisons, dwelling on past failures, seeking external validation, downplaying our achievements, engaging in negative self-talk, isolating ourselves, and neglecting self-care. Sound Bites "Have you ever felt that others are more capable, more talented or just plain better than you? It's a common feeling." "Comparing ourselves to others is quite normal. We all do it." "Overestimating others and underestimating yourself means when we hold others in higher regard than we do ourselves, often believing that their achievements are greater or their skills superior." Chapters 00:00 Introduction: The Negative Impact of Comparing Ourselves to Others 03:35 Why We Compare Ourselves to Others 08:42 Positive Comparison: Setting Benchmarks, Gaining Perspective, and Creating Accountability 11:07 The Difference Between Comparing Ourselves to Others and Overestimating Others and Underestimating Ourselves 16:20 Do's and Don'ts to Stop Overestimating Others and Underestimating Ourselves If you found this episode helpful, please leave a positive review, subscribe or follow, and share it with your friends. Thank you for helping Your Aha! Life to reach more people. If you want to learn more about Your Aha! Life and subscribe to my email list, click here! You can also email me directly at tonya@yourahalife.com. I look forward to hearing from you. I'll be back soon with another episode. Take good care. Tonya…

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Blog: Feeling Stuck? Ask These Empowering Questions to Move Forward 15:29

منذ 51 weeks15:29

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Thank you for listening to my latest audio blog. If you enjoyed it, take a moment to leave a great review, subscribe to the podcast, and share it with your friends. Thank you so much for helping to spread Your Aha! Life to more people. I loved writing and recording this blog article. Learning to ask empowering questions has helped me grow a positive mindset and accomplish more of my goals. Asking empowering questions leads to breakthroughs. Are you feeling stuck in any area of your life? Then I'm super happy you are listening today. Summary Feeling stuck? Ask these empowering questions to move forward. Discover the transformative power of empowering questions. Learn how the right questions can help you overcome feeling stuck, foster growth, and set a course toward a fulfilling life. Takeaways Feeling stuck can manifest in various aspects of our lives, such as career, relationships, personal growth, financial situation, living environment, life transitions, and spiritual and emotional fulfillment. Empowering questions can transform your mindset and open up new possibilities for growth and action. Empowering questions focus on solutions, opportunities, and what you can do to improve a situation while disempowering questions focus on limitations and reinforce a victim mindset. Examples of empowering questions include: What can I learn from this experience? What is one small step I can take today to move forward? Who can I reach out to for support or advice? Strategies for integrating empowering questions into your life include starting a journal, using reminders, creating an empowering vision board, and meditating on empowering questions. By choosing empowering questions over disempowering questions, you can set a course toward growth, resilience, and fulfillment. Sound Bites "Feeling stuck? Ask these empowering questions to move forward." "Empowering questions promote self-awareness, self-efficacy, and a proactive mindset." "The practice of asking empowering questions can truly transform your mindset and situation." Chapters 00:00 Feeling Stuck? Ask Empowering Questions to Move Forward 02:23 Common Areas Where People Feel Stuck 05:30 Empowering vs. Disempowering Questions: Shifting Your Mindset 07:15 Examples of Empowering and Disempowering Questions 11:33 Strategies for Integrating Empowering Questions into Daily Life 13:31 Call to Action Want to learn more about Your Aha! Life? Great!!! Visit my website at yourahalife.com.…

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Blog: Self-Discipine: The Key to Realizing Your Dreams 10:28

منذ 1 year10:28

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Thanks for listening to the latest blog. If you enjoy listening in this audio format, please leave a review and send a message to let me know. Your feedback means so much to me. Thank you! Summary Self-discipline is the key to realizing your dreams and living life on your own terms. It is an essential skill for personal fulfillment and success. Self-discipline involves prioritizing long-term goals over immediate gratifications and making conscious decisions that align with core values and life aspirations. Practical steps to enhance self-discipline include defining clear, achievable goals, creating a structured plan, monitoring progress, cultivating resilience, being kind to oneself, and remembering why you started. Self-discipline is a dynamic skill that grows with practice and patience, and it empowers individuals to live the life they've always dreamed of. Keywords self-discipline, dreams, personal fulfillment, success, goals, aspirations, practical steps, resilience, progress, empowerment Takeaways Self-discipline is essential for living life on your own terms and achieving your dreams. Self-discipline involves prioritizing long-term goals and making conscious decisions. Practical steps to enhance self-discipline include defining clear goals, creating a structured plan, monitoring progress, cultivating resilience, being kind to oneself, and remembering why you started. Self-discipline is a dynamic skill that grows with practice and empowers individuals to live a fulfilling life. Sound Bites "Self-discipline, the key to realizing your dreams." "You already have self-discipline. To discipline yourself, you simply must decide to do it." "Self-discipline is much more than just sticking to a schedule or resisting temptation. It's a transformative tool or skill that converts potential into performance and intentions into accomplishments." Chapters 00:00 The Transformative Power of Self-Discipline 00:56 Self-Discipline: The Key to Realizing Your Dreams 03:45 Understanding Self-Discipline 04:37 Practical Steps to Enhance Self-Discipline 08:25 Call to Action If you love this episode, please leave a review and share it with your friends. This podcast will only grow with your help. Thanks again for listening, and I'll be back again soon with another episode. I wish you more joy, more purpose, and more fulfillment. Take good care.…

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43. Personal Development: Vitamin vs. Pain Reliever for Lasting Joy and Fulfillment 24:26

منذ 1 year24:26

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Summary In this episode, Tonya explores the concept of personal development as a vitamin or a pain reliever. She discusses how personal development is often sought during times of pain or crisis as a quick-fix solution. However, she proposes a different approach - treating personal development as a daily vitamin, something to invest in consistently even when things are going well. This daily vitamin approach leads to long-term growth, resilience, self-awareness, and overall happiness and fulfillment. Tonya provides practical tips for making personal development a habit and overcoming common obstacles. Takeaways Personal development is often sought as a quick fix solution during times of pain or crisis. Treating personal development as a daily vitamin, something to invest in consistently, leads to long-term growth and resilience. The daily vitamin approach to personal development results in greater self-awareness, self-acceptance, and overall happiness and fulfillment. Practical tips for making personal development a habit include practicing mindfulness, journaling, exercising, setting meaningful goals, investing in relationships, and seeking support from mentors and like-minded communities. Common obstacles to treating personal development as a daily vitamin include time management, lack of motivation, and consistency. Overcoming these obstacles requires prioritizing personal development, finding enjoyment in the process, and surrounding oneself with supportive individuals. Chapters 00:00 Personal Development: Daily Vitamin vs. Pain Reliever 03:55 Pain Reliever Mentality 06:58 The Daily Vitamin Approach 08:17 The Benefits of a Daily Vitamin Approach 11:12 Making Personal Development a Sustainable Habit 15:04 Overcoming Common Obstacles 21:30 Conclusion and Call to Action To access the Your Aha! Life Journey Accelerators that Tonya mentions in the episode go to https://yourahalife.com and click on the Resources tab. While you're there, sign up to become a member of the Your Aha! Life Global Community. You'll receive a gift, Tonya's monthly newsletter, blogs, invitations to special member events, and other perks. Get to know Tonya and Your Aha! Life. If you loved this episode, please leave a review and share it with your friends. This podcast will grow because of listeners like you. Thank you so very much.…

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Blog: Essential Steps to Navigate and Grow Through Life Transitions 10:23

منذ 1 year10:23

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Thank you for listening to my latest blog. I really wanted to share this topic with you to help you make the most of the changes in your life. If you're like me, a lot of change is happening - personally and professionally. As difficult as change can be, learning to navigate life transitions effectively enables us to move through uncertainty and come out stronger, wiser, and more resilient on the other side. In this article, you will learn actionable strategies to help you transition effectively during change. Let me know what you think of the blog. If you love it, please subscribe, leave a great review, and share it with your friends. This podcast grows only if people like you spread the word. Thank you. Want to connect with me personally, I'd love that. You can email me at tonya@yourahalife.com, follow me on Instagram at tonya.yourahalife, or leave a message on this podcast platform. Check out the other audio blogs and my podcast episodes. I just restarted the podcast after being away from it for three years. I'm so excited to be back. My commitment to helping people everywhere fulfill their highest potential and live their best lives—their Aha! Lives—has never been stronger. Let's walk this journey together. To read all the Your Aha! Life blogs and gain access to many other resources, go to yourahalife.com. While you're there, subscribe to become a member of the Your Aha! Life Global Community.…

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42. Defining Your "Best Life" 18:49

منذ 1 year18:49

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Summary In this conversation, Tonya explores the topic of defining your best life. She shares reflections from previous podcast guests and survey participants on what living their best life means to them. Tonya also discusses the perspectives of ancient philosophers and psychologists on the good life. She concludes by providing questions for listeners to reflect on in the areas of self, others/relationships, contribution, and work/career. Takeaway: Defining your best life is a personal exploration that evolves as you grow and learn more about yourself and the world around you. Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Defining Your Best Life 09:36 Ancient Philosophers and Psychologists on the Good Life 14:28 Reflection Questions for Self-Exploration 15:26 Reflection Questions for Relationships and Others 16:25 Reflection Questions for Contribution 16:57 Reflection Questions for Work or Career Reflection Questions: Self: What are three personal qualities or strengths you feel proud of, and how can you use these more effectively to enhance your well-being and live your best life? Can you reflect on a moment or experience where you felt you have truly come to understand and accept yourself? Others (Relationships): Who in your life has had a significant impact on your growth, and how can you strengthen or rekindle these key relationships? How have your relationships helped you grow into a a better version of yourself, and what role do they play in your pursuit of living your best life? Contribution: How do you contribute to the greater good through your everyday actions, and how does this shape your sense of fulfillment? What is one small change in your daily routine that would positively affect your community or the environment? Work: How does your current job or career align with your personal values and your vision of living your best life, and what steps can you take to increase this alignment? When have you felt most absorbed and energized by your work, experiencing a state of flow? What steps can you take to cultivate this experience more frequently in your professional life? We hope these questions will spark some thoughts and inspire you to reflect deeply on your own path. If you found this podcast episode helpful, leave a great review and share it with your friends.…

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Blog: How to Stop Self-Sabotage and Live a Happier Life 8:33

منذ 1 year8:33

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Welcome to my audio blog on How to Stop Self-Sabotage and Live a Happier Life. Unknowingly, we can self-sabotage our own happiness. In this blog article, I share four ways you might be undermining your happiness and strategies you can implement to avoid doing that. None of us intends to make ourselves unhappy, but we can get in our own way. I hope you'll apply the four strategies so that you live a healthier and happier life. If you enjoy the blog, give it a good rating, leave a message or give it a great review, and share it with your friends. Thank you! Want to know more about Your Aha! Life? Or read and download the print version of my blog article? Visit the Your Aha! Life website. While there, I invite you to sign up and become a member of the Global Your Aha! Life Community. Also, after three years of being away, I am recording new episodes of my podcast. You can listen right here at Your Aha! Life podcast. Check out the latest podcast episodes. Wishing you more joy, more purpose, and more fulfillment. XO, Tonya…

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41. Back to the Basics of Aha! Living 19:51

منذ 1 year19:51

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Summary In this episode, Tonya Harris Cornileus reintroduces herself and discusses the eight essential components of creating and living your best life. These components include self-belief, integrity, service to others, healthy relationships, positive mindset, healthy achieving, resilience, and flow. Tonya provides tips and strategies for cultivating each component and encourages listeners to reflect on their strengths and growth areas. Keywords Aha! Living, self-belief, integrity, service to others, healthy relationships, positive mindset, healthy achieving, resilience, flow Takeaways Self-belief is the foundation for creating and living your best life. Think positively of yourself and your abilities. Living in integrity means aligning your beliefs, words, and actions. Service to others is a source of fulfillment and self-transcendence. Healthy relationships contribute to love, compassion, and belonging. A positive mindset focuses on the good and possibilities in life. Healthy achieving involves pursuing meaningful goals aligned with your values. Resilience is developed through challenges and requires energy management. Flow is achieved by being fully immersed and present in what you're doing - unbothered by outside influences. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Reintroduction 02:13 The Basics of AHA Living 05:05 Self-Belief and Integrity 05:35 Service to Others and Healthy Relationships 06:33 Positive Mindset and Healthy Achieving 07:29 Resilience and Flow Sound Bites "I'm a meditator and a journaler. I swear those two things, doing those every day, I think that's what keeps me sane ⁓ and helps me to maintain a positive mindset." "Serving others is the single source of fulfillment in life. I believe that's when we move from self-actualization to self-transcendence." "When you have a positive mindset, you look for the good in life. Even when you're going through difficult times, difficult circumstances, you choose to focus on what is possible." 8 Essential Components of an Aha! Life Self-Assessment and Tips: https://bit.ly/eightcomponentsofahalife LOVE IT? Great! Please leave a great review and share it with your friends. Thank you, XOXO.…

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Season 4: Re-introducing Your Aha! Life Trailer 1:29

منذ 1 year1:29

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Welcome to Your Aha! Life, the podcast. I'm back after a three-year hiatus, and I'm so excited to join you again. This is the home for the seekers, the dreamers, and the doers who want more for their lives—more joy, more purpose, and more fulfillment. Each episode will feature stories from people who have experienced real-life "aha" moments on their journey to living their best life. Hosted by Dr. Tonya Harris Cornileus, a teacher-at-heart and mentor to many, certified leadership and life coach, and award-winning HR executive who has spent over 30 years leading and serving within large, high-profile corporations. Your Aha! Life is a movement to help people everywhere fulfill their highest potential and live their best life. On the podcast, you will hear stories of insight and inspiration, and even more importantly, you'll always leave with practical tips, strategies, and links to resources to help you on your journey to creating Your Aha! Life. The Your Aha! Life blog is also available here in audio format. Perfect for when you're on the go. To learn more about Your Aha! Life and access written blogs and tons of free resources, go to yourahalife.com or click here. You don't have to journey alone. Join the Your Aha! Life global community today and unite with like-minded individuals who are daring and courageous enough to believe they can live the life of their dreams—just like you!…

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Blog: Self-Renewal: Unlocking Personal Transformation, Growth, and Resilience 14:52

منذ 1 year14:52

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Welcome to this latest blog article on Self-Renewal, Personal Transformation, Growth, and Resilience. Blog description: Are you feeling stuck or unfulfilled? Do you want to live your healthiest, happiest life? If yes, then self-renewal might be the answer for you! In this article, we’ll explore the concept of self-renewal, why it’s important, and the different facets involved in it. Plus, we’ll discover the fascinating correlation between bodily cell regeneration and self-renewal. Download the Self-Renewal resource I created to support you on your journey to renewal, transformation, growth, and resilience. The questions I ask in the blog are found in the resource. Use it and share it with a friend. Are you enjoying having the option to listen to the blog article? If yes, let me hear from you. Leave a message on this platform or email me at tonya@yourahalife.com.…

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Blog: Identifying Emotional Triggers and Building Resilience with Self-Regulation 15:15

منذ 1 year15:15

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Welcome back to another audio blog by Your Aha! Life. This time I'm delving into the topic of Identifying Emotional Triggers and Building Resilience with Self-Regulation. For short, it's about learning to manage our emotions so that we can boost our resilience and act in ways that are aligned with our values and how we want to show up in the world. I hope you enjoy it. Description: Emotional triggers are everywhere - during a disagreement with a loved one, the moment you’re cut off in traffic, or even while scrolling through social media. These moments test us, but with self-regulation, you have the power to navigate these challenges. It’s a skill that takes practice and patience, but mastering it can significantly enhance your happiness and wellbeing. Let’s dive into how to turn these triggers in opportunities for growing a positive mindset and building personal resilience - two components of the Aha! Life. In the article I cited a research-based article, What is Self-Regulation? by Courtney E. Ackerman, MA for PositivePsychology.com. Click here to read it and learn more. I invite you to join the Your Aha! Global Community. Go to my website at https://yourahalife.com to learn more and subscribe today. I look forward to continuing our journeys together. Wishing you more joy, more purpose, and more fulfillment. XO, Tonya…

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Blog: Top Five Qualities of Empowered Women Excelling in Personal Development 8:37

منذ 1 year8:37

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In today's audioblog, I pay tribute to the women of the global Aha! Community and beyond who are champions of their personal development. I highlight five research-based qualities of women who consistently commit to their growth and empowerment. When women invest in their personal and professional development, it's not just a win for them; it's a step towards a better world for everyone. Listen in and take time to reflect on the five qualities of empowered women who excel in their personal development. What can you do to cultivate these qualities in yourself and other women? Want to join the global Aha! Community? Great. Go to my website at https://yourahalife.com . While you're there, check out all my blogs and the many resources I offer to support you on your personal development journey. Remember to subscribe to my email list. You'll receive a gift from me, my monthly newsletter, and other member perks. If you enjoy listening to this audioblog, leave a good review and share it with your friends. Thank you. I'll be back soon with another audioblog. Stay tuned. XO, Tonya…

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Blog: How the Company You Keep Shapes Your Life 11:56

منذ 1 year11:56

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Today, I'm presenting an audioblog about how our social circles profoundly impact us, often more than we realize. We tend to adopt the behaviors, mannerisms, language, and emotions of the people we spend the most time with. It's essential to become more aware of how our associations affect us positively or negatively, so we can strengthen our connections with those who inspire and support us and either improve or let go of those relationships that don't. When you finish reading the blog, check out the Your Aha! Life Journey Accelerator I created as a complement: The Company You Keep: Social Circle Inventory. You can complete four exercises to get a clearer sense of just how impactful your current social circle is in your life and tips on building better associations. Thanks for listening to the audioblog. Please send your questions or feedback. If you love it, give this audioblog a stellar rating, and share it with your friends. I'll be back soon with another audioblog. Go to my website to learn more about Your Aha! Life: https://yourahalife.com XO, Tonya…

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Blog: Live Boldly: Strategies for a Fuller Life 11:48

منذ 1 year11:48

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Welcome back to Your Aha! Life. In addition to my podcasts, you can now find my audioblogs here to make it easier for you to listen to your favorite blogs on the go. Today's blog article is Live Boldly: Strategies for a Fuller Life. We all want to live our best lives. None of us wants to reach the end and realize we held back, walking through the world timidly. This blog will help you to discover: Signs that indicate when you're playing it safe What bold living looks like, and Simple actions that pave the way to a bolder, fuller life. If you are a member of the Your Aha! Life Global Community, thank you for being here. Please share this audioblog and Your Aha! Life with your friends. If you are not yet a member, visit my website at https://yourahalife.com and subscribe today. I'd love to get to know you and continue our journeys together. Do you love this audioblog? Great! Please give it a stellar rating on your platform and leave a comment. If you are listening on Spotify Podcasts, I'd love for you to interact with me by answering the poll questions or leaving me a message. Thank you, Tonya…

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Blog: From Busy to Balanced: 10 Hacks for Boosting Productivity & Well-Being 7:57

منذ 1 year7:57

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Welcome to the Your Aha! Life audioblog. I decided to leverage my podcast and add the audio of my blogs to this known platform. If you've been with Your Aha! Life for a while and are accustomed to reading my blog articles, I hope you'll appreciate this new service I'm offering. I read my blog to you, and you listen on the go. Whether on your commute, while exercising, or while sitting down to relax, I hope you enjoy it. Today's blog is From Busy to Balanced: 10 Hacks for Boosting Productivity & Well-Being. In this article, you'll learn 10 practical hacks to help you go from busy and stressed to productive and balanced. Additionally, I developed the latest Your Aha! Life Journey Accelerator, Harmony & Hustle: Steps to Increase Your Productivity and Wellbeing, which includes 10 more hacks for a total of 20 practical tips to unlock a version of yourself that is both highly productive and profoundly balanced. Check it out. Let me know what you think. Email me at tonya@yourahalife.com or submit your comments and questions to this podcast. XO, Tonya…

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40. Letting Go and Making Room for New Beginnings 30:37

منذ 4 years30:37

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In today's episode, I'm sharing some news. I'd love it if you listen to the episode in its entirety. I want to thank all of you who have been consistent and supportive listeners to Your Aha! Life - The Podcast. After more than 19 months and 40 episodes, I have decided to pause the podcast indefinitely. You will find out the backstory in this episode. I am so thankful to you and to all of the guests I've had the honor of speaking with and learning from since I started in October 2019. I believe wholeheartedly in my decision to pause, and I know that endings precede new beginnings. Listen as I share my heartfelt gratitude to you, my hopes for you, and tell you what you can expect from Your Aha! Life going forward. If you are not a member of my private Facebook group, The Aha! Community, I would love for you to join. It's a group of 580 people who are committed to their personal development and to creating an environment that is positive and supportive. Also, the best way to keep up with what's happening with Your Aha! Life is to become an email subscriber. You'll become a member of the Your Aha! Life Global Community and receive access to resources and perks not available to others. Go to my website at www.yourahalife.com and sign up today. You can also follow me on IG @tonya.yourahalife, on Twitter @tonyacornileus, on LinkedIn @tcornileus and the Your Aha! Life page on LinkedIn, and on YouTube @tonyaharriscornileus. I believe the best is yet to come for Your Aha! Life, and I look forward to continuing our journey together. I wish you more joy, more purpose, and more fulfillment. XOXO, Tonya…

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39. Discover, Connect & Love: The Path to True Self-Care 46:54

منذ 4 years46:54

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Discover, Connect, & Love: The Path to True Self-Care. Listen In. I'm excited to welcome guest, Kerri Stenson to Your Aha! Life - The Podcast. Kerri and I met when we were going through the Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching certification program two years ago. Kerri is a registered social worker and a certified professional life coach, COR.E Wellbeing Specialist, and Energy Leadership Index Master Practitioner. In 2019, Kerri started Purposefully Balanced Coaching - a coaching practice dedicated to supporting other heart-centered helpers in making wellbeing a priority and overcoming the external and internal barriers that may be getting in the way. She speaks from the heart, sharing her own journey to greater self-care after experiencing burnout. Kerri believes the path to true self-care begins with Discover, Connect, and Love. These three, along with intentionality, will help all of us who are on the journey toward caring for ourselves in a meaningful and sustainable way. In today's episode, Kerri and I talk about the myths and misconceptions related to self-care and how you can practice self-care in a way that fits you. Join Kerri each month when she hosts MasterClass sessions on important topics related to self-care. You can find the link to register by following her on IG @purposefully_balanced and FB: @purposefullybalanced. You can also find out more about Kerri and Purposefully Balanced by going to her website at www.kerristenson.com . After listening to today's episode, please leave a comment, give this podcast a 5-star review, claps, or thumbs-up, and most importantly, share it with your network. Head over to my private Facebook group, The Aha! Community (join, if you're not a member) and to my IG @tonya.yourahalife so we can continue the conversation. This is such an important topic, now more than ever, given the stress people are dealing with. We could all stand to take better care of ourselves. Thank you for listening. xo, Tonya To learn more about Your Aha! Life and become a member of the Your Aha! Life Global Community, head over to my website at www.yourahalife.com. Each month you'll have early and/or exclusive access to my Newsletter, Aha! Moment video tips, Accelerators (tools and resources), open invitation to join The Aha! Community and the quarterly Aha! Life Global Community MeetUps. I'd love to connect with you.…

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38. Don't Settle for a Half-Life: How to Live The Life You Deserve 29:13

منذ 4 years29:13

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Don't Settle for a Half-Life: How to Live the Life You Deserve. If we're honest, all of us have settled in some area of our lives at some point in our lives. This episode is about that. If you find yourself settling for less than you deserve today or know that you have in the past, then you'll want to listen. In the episode, I share how settling shows up in our lives, the reasons people settle, and actions to take if you or someone you love is settling in life. Weeks ago the word, "settle" dropped in my spirit and I wasn't sure what I wanted to do with it. Then, when I was writing this week's blog on The Art of Living a Simple and Balanced Life, I came across Kahlil Gibran's poem, Half-Life. It is beautiful and brilliant, and it set the table for what I wanted to talk about in this podcast. In his poem, he says, "Half a life is a life you didn't live...you are not half a being, You are a whole that exists to live a life not half a life." I hope you enjoy this episode. More importantly, I want you to search your heart and ask yourself if you are settling in an area of your life. If you are, discover why and then apply some of the actions I give. When we live half-lives, when we settle, we are not living our best lives - certainly not our Aha! Lives. I want you to live Your Aha! Life and I want that for me as well. We deserve to live the lives we dream about. I wish you more joy, more purpose, and more fulfillment. Please join me in continuing the conversation by going to my IG: tonya@yourahalife or join my private Facebook group, The Aha! Community. Whatever platform you listen to/view this podcast, please leave a comment, a review, thumbs up, or claps, and hit the subscribe button. I really appreciate your support. xoxo, Tonya…

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