أفضل بودكاسات Dear Dating (2024)

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333: Are you addicted to porn? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay] 58:05

3d ago58:05

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Do you ever feel ashamed of your porn use, or wish you could stop or cut down? Ever had trouble getting it up and wondered if that's connected to porn use? Ever compared dating partners to women you see in porn, and wondered if that was negatively impacting your sex or love life? Over 10% of men are addicted to porn, according to a 2019 study in th…

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332: Ever gone into freeze? Here’s what’s actually going on. (ft. Stacy Matulis) 1:16:27

12d ago1:16:27

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If you've ever felt anxious around a woman you were attracted to, gone rigid when you tried to flirt, or completely shut down during a fight with your partner, you know what it is to go into freeze. When we're overwhelmed, we can lock up. This is inconvenient if what you really want to do in that moment is to move, get someone's number, or speak up…

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331: GirlTalk: Relationship lessons, growth work, and memorable men 1:05:09

17d ago1:05:09

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Ever wondered what different women say when they get really real about their last relationship? How about why they do growth work — and what it looks like for them? Here, I take you behind the curtain to give you a peek at exactly that. This is an amalgam episode with responses from over over ten women who answered three questions: What’s the bigge…

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330: GirlTalk: How to go down on her so she loves it! 1:10:58

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If you love having sex with women and want to be known as a great lover, being good at going down is an important part of your repertoire. ;) But it’s not easy to talk about this with anyone, so here we’re laying it bare. Four of us ladies share openly about what really works for us in oral sex -- what we desire, long for, and what holds us back in…

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329: How do you stay grounded when she's dysregulated (upset, stressed, anxious, angry, etc.)? (ft. Jason Lange) 59:21

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When your partner gets anxious or upset, do you feel like it's your fault or that you have to fix it immediately? How able are you to stay grounded and feel your own self, even amidst her storm/upset? Ever found yourself doing anything to calm her down -- because your sense of being OK was contingent upon her feeling OK? (We find this common in the…

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328: Betrayal trauma. How do you recover? (ft. Rosanne Delaney) 1:15:13

1M ago1:15:13

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"For so long I felt like, ‘this is only happening in my marriage.’" If you've ever experienced something dark, difficult, or deeply challenging in your love relationship, *and didn't feel like you could talk about it with others,* you'll relate to this episode. Few topics bring up wounds as deep as betrayal. Whether you've experienced a partner che…

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327: Transforming shame into power. Yes, it’s possible. (ft. Jason Lange & Luke Adler) 1:09:38

2M ago1:09:38

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What are you most ashamed of? Is it your sexuality -- how much you want and need sex, or your deep-down cravings that you fear others would judge if they knew about? Is it your yearning for love, your desire to be held or seen or known in some fundamental way? Many of the biggest breakthroughs we've witnessed in clients have come when they've heade…

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326: GuyTalk: How do you overcome a sexual challenge (like premature ejaculation)? [REPLAY] 46:11

2M ago46:11

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Ever experienced porn addiction (and had that affect your love relationship), contended with erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation, or been worried about what your cock looks like? Then you'll feel right at home with this episode. Here, several men in our community share their unvarnished truth with their own voices. They forthrightly and v…

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325: What if every woman had a self-pleasure practice? (ft. Violet Lange) 1:04:38

2M ago1:04:38

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Do you wish your woman was more open to sex? Not just intercourse, but the fun of the whole sex thing -- kissing, making out, foreplay, getting hot and heavy, doing the dirty. Ever longed for more from your wife/girlfriend/partner when it comes to sexuality -- and not just "from her" but with her? Ever wished she had more fun when it came to sex, t…

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324: What does it mean to open a woman? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:07:11

2M ago1:07:11

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Ever been around a woman who was closed down, shut off, or emotionally unavailable? Ever felt like your partner wanted to say something but was holding back, and if you'd somehow shown up in a different way, maybe she'd have let you in? Perhaps you've felt some version of, "I can’t handle that anger right now so I need to remove that anger from her…

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323: How do 12-step programs connect to healthy relationships? (ft. Mark Wilde) 1:11:19

2M ago1:11:19

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"When I was at my worst, I didn’t know there was a way out." Sometimes in life we get stuck. We don't know how to deal with big feelings, so we self-medicate -- with alcohol, or porn, or weed, or food. But often the self-medication gets in the way of things we really want -- love; intimacy; healthy, connected sex; joy. You may think of 12-step prog…

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322: 5 ways to polarize a powerful woman (ft. Jason Lange) [Replay] 1:10:01

3M ago1:10:01

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Has your woman ever been in her masculine, and you wished she was in her feminine? Here's something that doesn't work: "Hey, could you drop into your feminine already?" ;) So how do you polarize your woman well? Polarity is one of those mysteries in life like electricity: We don't fully grasp why it works, but we can harness its power to make our l…

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321: 'I’m afraid to show interest until I’m willing to commit' (ft. Jason Lange) 47:34

3M ago47:34

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Have you ever been concerned about getting involved with a woman because you didn't want to hurt her feelings if it didn't work out? Ever felt like you shouldn't go deeper emotionally with a woman you were dating because you weren't sure you wanted to put a ring on it? Does it ever feel like all women want a long-term, committed relationship, so if…

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320: From breakdown to breakthrough: how to recover from trauma (ft. Jason Lange) 51:31

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If you’ve become aware that you experienced developmental trauma (and/or attachment wounding), you may wonder how to heal from it. Where do you go to move through stuck parts of yourself that are holding you back? How do you get things moving and release blocks so you can finally get what you want in sex, dating, and relationships? Jason was a self…

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319: 'My relationship is war.' (What do I do?) (Ft. Jason Lange) 54:36

3M ago54:36

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Ever felt like when it comes to your relationship, you're constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop? Or that when you come home, you don't know what (or who) you're going to get? Or that every moment is, "Are they OK?" "Are they OK?" "Are they OK?" Reality check: It is not normal to be constantly on guard or anxious in your relationship. That k…

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318: GirlTalk: Role play in sex. What's it like!? 1:21:46

4M ago1:21:46

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Ever wanted to explore role-play in sex? If so, you're not alone! According to research, one in three people in North America alone wants to try some kind of role-play in the bedroom, whether that's doctor/patient, professor/student, cop/detainee, pirate/wench or some other sexy dynamic. Why is sexual role-play so intriguing? Is it different from k…

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317: What exactly IS codependency? (How do you know if you’re codependent?) (ft. Jason Lange) 1:00:55

4M ago1:00:55

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"It felt kind of like a trap, but at the same time felt like a soothing warm blanket to feel safe and ruminate within." "The codependent relationship is filled with drama. There is blaming, a victim and the rescuer/protector. That rescuer is filled with needing to be needed. That’s where it began for me." "It was years of trying as hard as I could …

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316: Where do you find quality masculine role models? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay] 1:06:26

4M ago1:06:26

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Did you have a deeply present, emotionally aware father who took the time to attune to you and teach you how to be a trustworthy, integrated man? If so, you're in the minority. ;) Most of our clients had far-less-than-ideal role models when it came to the masculine -- which makes becoming a trustable adult man challenging. For example, do you feel …

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315: What happens once you’ve recovered from Nice Guy Syndrome? (ft. Dr. Robert Glover) 1:15:29

4M ago1:15:29

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There's a lot out there about Nice Guy Syndrome. But what happens after? What is the magical land of Boundaries, for example? If you’ve figured out you’re a Nice Guy, you’ve likely been in a love relationship or two (or five) where you felt like your partner walked all over you, or where you developed resentment after overextending yourself. Or per…

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314: Can microdosing help you develop better relationships? (ft. David Romero) 1:02:02

5M ago1:02:02

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Ever contended with anxiety, depression, chronic pain, ADHD, or OCD ... and had that affect your sex or love life? Ever suspected that you have generational trauma, or thought you were broken? Ever felt like there was something wrong with you because you just can't seem to get it together when it comes to relationships? Spoiler alert: There is noth…

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313: GuyTalk: Life after being with a BPD partner (Borderline Personality Disorder) 1:31:06

5M ago1:31:06

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"I took responsibility for things that wasn’t mine to take." So begins the brave stories of four men who share their personal experiences of what it was like being in relationship with a woman with Borderline Personality Disorder (or with traits of it). If you've ever been unsure about whether your partner may have traits of BPD, this is a good one…

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312: GirlTalk: How much money do you make, and how much does that matter? 1:06:38

5M ago1:06:38

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Have you ever felt like you needed to make a lot of money to impress women? Ever had a dynamic shift around money in a relationship, and not known how to deal with it (for example, she starts making more than you, and you have unexpected feelings about that)? Have you wondered who should pay on a date (do you offer to? Is that considered sexist now…

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311: What does it really mean to be emotionally available? (ft. Violet Lange) 47:38

5M ago47:38

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Ever chased emotionally unavailable women? Ever dropped a connection because you felt overwhelmed, or like something was "off" but you couldn't quite name what it was? Ever been uncomfortable with the "mess" of dealing with someone else's emotions, or been hesitant to share your own out of a fear of rocking the boat? Then this episode will resonate…

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310: How do I initiate sex without coming off as demanding? (ft. me) 28:46

6M ago28:46

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Sexy time, pickers, and dating, oh my! Here I answer the following three common client or listener questions: "I’ve heard women say it’s a red flag if the man has not had relationship experience. What do you say?" "One issue I've had is selecting the right female partner. What is a good way to guide myself to go about doing this?" (My picker is off…

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309: How do you know when it's time to get a divorce? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:13:48

6M ago1:13:48

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When is it time to stay and work on things in your marriage, and when is it time to let things go? Perhaps you can relate to scenarios like these: You're worn out and exhausted because you're always the one reaching out to your wife and never getting anything back You're great co-parents but your sex life is DOA As a couple you rarely or never open…

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333: Are you addicted to porn? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay] 58:05

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332: Ever gone into freeze? Here’s what’s actually going on. (ft. Stacy Matulis) 1:16:27

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331: GirlTalk: Relationship lessons, growth work, and memorable men 1:05:09

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330: GirlTalk: How to go down on her so she loves it! 1:10:58

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329: How do you stay grounded when she's dysregulated (upset, stressed, anxious, angry, etc.)? (ft. Jason Lange) 59:21

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328: Betrayal trauma. How do you recover? (ft. Rosanne Delaney) 1:15:13

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327: Transforming shame into power. Yes, it’s possible. (ft. Jason Lange & Luke Adler) 1:09:38

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326: GuyTalk: How do you overcome a sexual challenge (like premature ejaculation)? [REPLAY] 46:11

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325: What if every woman had a self-pleasure practice? (ft. Violet Lange) 1:04:38

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324: What does it mean to open a woman? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:07:11

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323: How do 12-step programs connect to healthy relationships? (ft. Mark Wilde) 1:11:19

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322: 5 ways to polarize a powerful woman (ft. Jason Lange) [Replay] 1:10:01

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321: 'I’m afraid to show interest until I’m willing to commit' (ft. Jason Lange) 47:34

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320: From breakdown to breakthrough: how to recover from trauma (ft. Jason Lange) 51:31

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319: 'My relationship is war.' (What do I do?) (Ft. Jason Lange) 54:36

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318: GirlTalk: Role play in sex. What's it like!? 1:21:46

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317: What exactly IS codependency? (How do you know if you’re codependent?) (ft. Jason Lange) 1:00:55

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316: Where do you find quality masculine role models? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay] 1:06:26

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315: What happens once you’ve recovered from Nice Guy Syndrome? (ft. Dr. Robert Glover) 1:15:29

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314: Can microdosing help you develop better relationships? (ft. David Romero) 1:02:02

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313: GuyTalk: Life after being with a BPD partner (Borderline Personality Disorder) 1:31:06

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312: GirlTalk: How much money do you make, and how much does that matter? 1:06:38

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311: What does it really mean to be emotionally available? (ft. Violet Lange) 47:38

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310: How do I initiate sex without coming off as demanding? (ft. me) 28:46

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309: How do you know when it's time to get a divorce? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:13:48

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