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Life After Suicide Loss: Self-Witnessing When Others Can’t Hold It
Manage episode 513178510 series 3607567
المحتوى المقدم من Melissa Bottorff-Arey. يتم تحميل جميع محتويات البودكاست بما في ذلك الحلقات والرسومات وأوصاف البودكاست وتقديمها مباشرة بواسطة Melissa Bottorff-Arey أو شريك منصة البودكاست الخاص بهم. إذا كنت تعتقد أن شخصًا ما يستخدم عملك المحمي بحقوق الطبع والنشر دون إذنك، فيمكنك اتباع العملية الموضحة هنا https://ar.player.fm/legal.
When the right listener isn’t available, witnessing yourself—note or voice memo—keeps you seen and grounded in suicide bereavement.
Journal prompt: “If I gave myself 10% more gentleness, I would…”
Sometimes the right listener isn’t available. Today we make sure you still get heard.
A Flicker (Hope) — Proof you exist
Your words on paper or in a memo are evidence. Seeing or hearing yourself can soften the edge—keep that proof.
To Rebuild (Healing) — 5-minute self-witness
Set a timer for 5 minutes. Speak or write:
• What happened (facts, not drama).
• What I feel (one word is enough).
• What I need next (water, rest, boundary, help).
Stop when the timer ends. No editing.
Take a Step (Becoming) — Create a safe container
Start a private note titled “Witness Log” or a folder of voice memos. Date today’s entry. That’s your place to come back to.
Choose-your-energy menu:
- Hollow (low): Write one sentence: “Right now I feel ____ and I need ____.”
- Healing (medium): Do the full 5-minute self-witness and drink a glass of water after.
- Becoming (higher): Add a repeating “Witness Log” reminder 3x/week.
Food for Thought Today:
Being your own witness is not a consolation prize; it’s a discipline. Each honest entry quiets the part of you bracing to be misunderstood. You’re teaching your system that your truth has a home.
Exhale. Keep what serves you; leave the rest. I’ll be here again tomorrow. 💜
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