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Breaking Generational Perfectionism To Choose Healthy Love
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المحتوى المقدم من Trina Stewart. يتم تحميل جميع محتويات البودكاست بما في ذلك الحلقات والرسومات وأوصاف البودكاست وتقديمها مباشرة بواسطة Trina Stewart أو شريك منصة البودكاست الخاص بهم. إذا كنت تعتقد أن شخصًا ما يستخدم عملك المحمي بحقوق الطبع والنشر دون إذنك، فيمكنك اتباع العملية الموضحة هنا https://ar.player.fm/legal.
What if the love you learned was really pressure in disguise? We follow a winding road trip that turns into a reckoning, as I sit with people who knew my parents and finally hear the words I’d been circling for years. My brother’s overdose, the demand to be perfect, and the quiet ways coercive control seeps into families all come into focus—shifting the story from personal failure to inherited patterns that reward performance and punish truth.
I unpack how those patterns echoed in my adult relationship when my ex returned to his ex-wife. From the outside, it looked romantic. Up close, it was a return to a system that traded autonomy for access, where conditional love set the rules. Therapy helped me name the dynamics—addiction, control, and survival—and see why love alone can’t undo a lifetime of training. That reframing didn’t erase grief, but it loosened blame and made room for compassion without self-abandonment.
This conversation moves from family history to practical healing: noticing the whispers of control, setting boundaries that hold, and choosing relationships where safety doesn’t require shrinking. If you’ve ever confused stability with surrender or felt guilty for wanting ease, you’ll find language and tools to step toward healthy love. We talk about releasing the need to perform, allowing rest without earning it, and building connection that doesn’t hinge on pleasing or perfection.
Press play for a story-forward exploration of generational perfectionism, coercive control, addiction’s ripple effects, and the courage to choose a different map. If any part of this resonated, share it with a friend who might need the reminder that they deserve a love that is free. And if you’re new here, subscribe, leave a review, and tell us: what truth are you ready to say out loud?
Thank you for listening. Spoken with love and light from Trina Stewart, Life's a Blog.
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