We love our families, but let’s be real - some of us are fighting battles that didn’t start with us. In this episode, the sisters get vulnerable about the weight of childhood wounds, the pressure of hustle culture, and the emotional toll of being the ‘strong Black woman.’ But sis, we’re not meant to just survive - we’re meant to thrive. It’s time t…

From curated devotionals to aesthetic Bible journaling, Christianity has become a look online. But is faith something to be ‘performed’? The sisters deep dive into the rise of ‘trendy Christianity’ and the fine line between inspiration and superficiality. Let’s talk about cultural Christianity vs. real discipleship, why private devotion matters mor…

In today’s To My Sisters episode, we’re joined by the powerhouse Tiwalola Ogunlesi who’s here to share her journey of unapologetic confidence and faith-driven success. Author, Speaker & Founder of Confident & Killing It, Tiwalola gets real about what it means to kill it in life - owning your confidence, chasing your dreams without hesitation, and t…

Friendship breakups can hit even harder than romantic ones. Whether you’ve drifted apart, had a major fallout, or realized you’ve been in a one-sided friendship—knowing whether to fight for the relationship or walk away is never easy. In this episode, your resident online sisters unpack the different types of friendship breakups, how to navigate th…

In today's episode of To My Sisters, we’re diving deep into 10 Red Flags in Female Friendships. From communication and gossip to manipulation and conflict resolution, we discuss it all. 🇿🇦 COME TO THE CAPE TOWN SHOW: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/to-my-sisters-live-in-cape-town-south-africa-tickets-1115879237839?utm-campaign=social&utm-content=atten…

In this inspiring episode of To My Sisters, we’re joined by the incredible Nellie - an incredible woman who has influenced thousands as a makeup guru and cancer survivor. Nellie opens up about her journey through surviving cancer, her unwavering faith in God, and how she’s used her love for makeup and beauty to empower herself and others. From find…

This week on To My Sisters, we’re honored to sit down with the powerhouse that is Ray Blk for a conversation that’s as raw as it is inspiring. 🎤✨ Together, we peel back the layers of her journey—one marked by resilience, self-discovery, and the audacity to walk away from anything that threatened her peace and purpose. Ray invites us into her proces…

In this episode of To My Sisters, we’re joined by none other than Megan Ashley for a deep and transformative conversation. Together, we explore the power of discipline, strengthening your faith in God, and starting afresh in alignment with His purpose. 🙏✨ Megan opens up about the courage it takes to let go of things—and even people—that walk away f…

In our first episode of 2025 over at To My Sisters, we’re stepping into a new chapter as we discuss embracing the fresh beginnings that 2025 brings. From navigating the realities of adulting and growing up to learning how to thrive in the ever-changing seasons of life, we’re here to help you reflect, reset, and take on this year with grace. 💪✨ Join…

In today's episode of To My Sisters, we’re diving deep into the evolving nature of female friendships over the last year, as we journey through life. Join us as we explore how to maintain deep, meaningful connections amidst milestones, how to embrace the change and the power of sisterhood in navigating life's transitions. We also have some very big…

In this weeks episode, your favourite online sisters discuss how to become a confident woman in a world that seems to be intimidated by confident women. From the cultural realities of imposter syndrome in the workplace and at school, to overcoming perfectionism and leaning on your community, they discuss it all with the hope of equipping you as you…

In today's episode, the sisters get real about their experiences with explicit adult content, and its dangers for women and broader society. Inspired by a recent BBC News documentary, they talk about everything from the objectification of women to overcoming shame and why it can be so hard to end the cycle of consuming adult content. 00:00 Welcome …

In this heartfelt episode of TMS, we dive deep into the "Winter Arc" of life—a season marked by waiting, uncertainty, and challenges. How do we remain faithful when the light seems far away? How can we find joy and contentment in these dark and difficult times? Join us as we share practical tips, and faith-filled insights to help you embrace the be…

Building on last week’s amazing Live from Layfield conversation, this week’s episode takes you to the heart of our Live in London special with your favourite homegirls, Courtney and Renee. Together, they explore the seasons of life—from embracing the chill and challenges of your “winter” season to thriving and living abundantly in your “summer” sea…

The sisters are still buzzing from the AMAZING TMS Live in London show—and by popular demand, we’ve captured the magic for you! 🎉 That’s right, this special edition of TMS Live in Conversation brings you the Live from Layfield crew’s very first live conversation and a heartfelt reunion created just for the show. Join Zoe, Uvie, and Beverly as they …

In this episode, we’re joined by the incredible financial wellness educator, author, and entrepreneur Bola Sol. We dive deep into her journey of mastering money, building financial confidence, and staying true to yourself in the process. Bola shares her insights on navigating personal finance, wellness, and authenticity in a 💌 Introducing our guest…

As two best friends who run a business together and live together, your two favourite online sisters dive into how they make their friendship and business partnership work despite the pressure, cultural narratives and statistical data that shows most co-founder relationships end up failing. They discuss how they navigate communication, conflict, co…

What does it really take to build a business while staying true to yourself? In this episode, we’re joined by Ama, the powerhouse co-founder of Plantmade, to dive deep into the realities of being a woman founder. Ama opens up about the highs and lows of working with family, balancing personal life with business, and what people don’t see behind the…

In today’s episode the sisters get very real and transparent about what’s been happening behind the scenes. From experiencing anxiety and burnout, to locking in and pivoting. Grab your tea (or some wine) as it’s set to be a real one. ✈️ Come with us to Ghana: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters/84 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://…

In a world that constantly demands more of us, how do we protect our peace while staying true to who we are? Beyond self-care routines and social media detoxes, what does it really mean to set healthy boundaries, nurture your growth, prioritise friendship and remain authentic in a world of comparisons? We’re joined by the amazing content creator an…

In this episode, we sit down with Vidette, our dear friend and founder of Sorted Chale, to talk about her bold leap from corporate life to following her passion for travel. Vidette shares the challenges of navigating a business breakup, the lessons she learned along the way, and how she’s embraced her most authentic self throughout the journey. Fro…

In this third and final part of the mentorship conversation with Emmanuelle Faith Zoe, Courtney & Renee go deep into why sisterhood is a secret weapon for the woman who's about to give up on herself, and her journey. They share how female friendships (when done well) provide a safe nurturing environment for you to grow and heal. Get ready for a pow…

Today Courtney & Renee are in the hot seat and they are going deep into the topic of self-awareness. Their little sis/mentee Emmanuelle asks what does it look like to be productively self-aware without being self-condemning? How do you learn to love your imperfections whilst pursuing the vision of the woman you want to be? This episode is for the s…

In today's episode, your resident online sisters are featuring as guests...on their own podcast! We're joined by our little sister and mentee, none other than Emanuelle Faith Zoe, to represent the pressing questions that you may have for us. Part of a three-part series dropping over the next few days 👀 we'll be talking faith, healing, relationships…

Your favourite online besties are back, and in true TMS Hot Takes fashion, we're delivering some honesty, social commentary, and light-hearted best-friend banter. We dive into the reality of burnout, the Cam Newton debacle, and our thoughts on birthday dinners, splitting the bill and dealing with an undercover hater. Grab some tea or wine sis, beca…

In today’s episode, the sisters weigh in on the reality of being a woman physically. From bodily changes to hormonal imbalances, what does it mean to be taking care of our bodies inside and outside? Find out all of this and more in today’s TMS episode! 🥳 Get your ticket to our London Live Show: https://shoreditchtownhall.com/whats-on/to-my-sisters-…

In today’s episode, the sisters are joined by Leanne Pero MBE, a social entrepreneur, author and breast cancer survivor. We dive deep into Leanne’s own personal experience, the necessity of bringing awareness of breast cancer amongst young people and BAME communities, and how she found comfort, healing and purpose amidst her experience. The disease…

Navigating the questions of finances in any relationship, whether it be romantic or platonic, isn’t always easy. Not to mention the rise of materialism, the reality of comparison and the very real cost of living crisis we are seeing rippling across the world. In today’s episode, the sisters spill the tea on the challenges of financial modesty, the …

Beyond who pays on the first date and finding a ‘provider’, what does it ACTUALLY look like to run a healthy financial household with your spouse? Is it truly possible to achieve financial freedom and financial joy with your beloved? What does long term planning look like in marriage - and what are the red flags around money that we as women should…

In today’s podcast episode, the sisters weigh in on the uncomfortable truth about levelling up and leaving your friends behind. From unequally yoked friendships, bad behaviour and jealous friends, to self-awareness when YOU are the problem, the ladies dive into the hot tea on the truth of navigating these tense relationships! 🇬🇭✈️ Come with us to G…

In today's episode of TMS Hot Takes, your favorite online sisters discuss the riots currently taking place in various cities in the UK and how a colonial history, institutional racism, and xenophobia are exposing that the UK isn't as 'tolerant' as it brands itself to be. ☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/d…

We’re joined by the renowned international speaker, entrepreneur, and multi-hyphenate Hayley Mulenda Record, to talk candidly about her evolution as a woman. From processing identity shifts in marriage, maintaining friendships through tough seasons, to going full throttle with ministry - you’re in for a treat in today’s episode of the To My Sisters…

Sit back, relax, and get ready to laugh with your favourite online sisters as they answer a juicy dilemma, discuss dating non-negotiables and whether you should be a 'pick me' for your man. TIMESTAMPS: 02:12 Ding Ding Dilemma: "I Threatened My Boyfriend and I Think He's Ending It..." 15:29 Is there wisdom in being a 'pick me' for your man? 28:30 Em…

As a community of ambitious women embarking on our ‘glowing & growing’ journeys, an important thing for us all to embrace is the fact that transformation happens in seasons. In this episode, your favourite online sisters discuss 5 lessons that will help you embrace the season you’re in and overcome comparison, insecurity and any fear you may have t…

In this episode, your favourite online sisters dive into navigating the rising cost of having ‘community’ around you, the madness that is gossip blogs, the dark side of mukbang content, and President Joe Biden dropping out of the US election. Grab your tea or a glass of wine, because it’s a juicy one. Timestamps: 00:00 Welcome to the conversation s…

In today’s episode, the sisters are joined by Shani Akilah, renowned author of her debut book, ‘For Such a Time As This’. From the reality of cultivating friendships as an adult and wading through the dusty dating streets of London, to the reality of health issues afflicting the Black community, tune in for a heartwarming and wholesome conversation…

In this week's unserious episode of #TMSHotTakes, your favourite online sisters dive into, whether it's okay to have a work wife or husband, their thoughts on Netflix's newest hit - Supacell, and whether we should be crying on the internet. As well as answering one of your dilemmas! Timestamps: 00:00 Welcome to the conversation sis 01:04 Crying on …

2024 is moving quickly! With 6 months left of the year, join your favourite online sisters as they reflect and share 6 lessons they learned about their mental, physical, and spiritual health from the first 6 months. We hope these lessons reposition you to end the year better than you started. 00:00 Welcome sisters 💌 01:49 Housekeeping announcements…

Join your favourite online sisters in this unserious midweek episode where they share some thoughts on the UK election results, the relationship between stress and aging, things they'd go back and tell their teenage selves, and how they're feeling about their 30s. ☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate 📚…

Becoming wealthy and leaving an inheritance for your family are tasks often ascribed to men, but we believe it’s important for the sisters to have a wealth mindset, and think practically about how they’ll leave a positive legacy in their community whilst they’re on their losing and growing journeys. Join your favourite online sisters in today’s epi…

On today's episode of #TMSHotTakes your favourite online sisters share their opinions on whether the sexual revolution lied to us, the increase in women choosing to abstain from sex, and why community is essential for spiritual growth. ☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate 📚 ORDER our book here: https:/…

Our sisterhood community is formed of women who want to change their world and leave a legacy, so in today's episode, we are joined by Dr. Diahanne Rhiney, to discuss how women can build generational wealth, adopt a success mindset, and the importance of mothers who leave a positive legacy. 💌 Introducing our guest Dr. Diahanne Rhiney is an award-wi…

From money-woes, to wedding drama, and emotional spending, your favourite online sisters jump it all in this weeks episode of #TMSHotTakes. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Intro: Welcome to Audio Only & Courtney’s Blocked Bath 02:38 ‘Poverty is an underrated trauma…’ 15:59 The Scandalous Cost of Weddings 32:49 Emotional Spending & Consumerism 48:58 Learning to N…

In today’s episode, the sisters weigh in on last week’s episode with none other than Adella Afadi. From seeking freedom from the male gaze to repairing our relationship with self, sex and the male gaze - tune in to reflective and candid conversation on how, and why, women should strive for the same. Timestamps: 00:00 Welcome to the conversation sis…

Join your favourite online sisters in this mid-week episode as they share their thoughts on the upcoming UK General Election. The complex feelings women might feel towards the recent series of engagement and pregnancy announcements on social media. And their tales of being young, dumb and in love as they reflect on a viral TikTok trend. ☀️📚🇬🇭 DONAT…

When it comes to social movements, humans tend to swing from one extreme to another. Today we sit down with our good sis Adella Afadi to ask the question, have we gone too far with some of our responses to internet trends and conversations on the male gaze, being a ‘pick me’ and recovering from people pleasing? 💌 Introducing our guest Adella Afadi …

Marriage and commitment is hard, but cheating might not be the answer… Join your favourite online sisters as they share their thoughts on Netlfix’s The Ultimatum South Africa and the Ashley Madison Scandal. Plus in the exclusive audio they delve into thoughts on the Diddy, Jalen Noble and modern men. ☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy:…

Your favourite online sisters are back! In this episode, they reflect on the conversations they had with the brothers on fatherhood, marriage, dating and the gender wars. They share thoughts on how to approach toxic relationships with parents, the importance of healing, and financial management in romantic relationships. ☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the B…

'Daddy Issues' and exploring our relationships with father figures as topics we haven't shied away from on the To My Sisters Podcast, and in this episode, we sit down with the wonderful Tope & Ije to discuss the lessons they've learned from being married for a combined 35 years. They share wisdom on the power of commitment, selflessness, and how th…

The time has come for us to sit down with some brothers and discuss dating, marriage, character development and ultimately explore the gender wars! In today's episode we sit down with two friends and great men in our lives; Claud & Kenny, to discuss how can men and women come to a place of understanding and friendship to build community and healthy…