Curiosity, human behavior, and uncomfortable questions take center stage on Sometimes Curious, Often Confused. Each week, I delve into trust, deception, friendship, and the psychology of human relationships—not as an expert, but as someone searching for understanding. Part personal journal, part thought experiment, this podcast explores connection, vulnerability, and the choices we make. Hosted by Richard Okongwu. Follow on Instagram @scocpod & @richsomto. For feedback or questions, email de ...
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Fear of Ruined Reputation: Why We Worry About Judgment even Before Success
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Season 1: Why We Do What We Do and Why It’s Not Weird | Episode 9Why are we so afraid of ruining our reputation, even if no one knows who we are? In this episode, we delve into the fear of being canceled, why we worry about our reputation, and the pressure to be perfect—even before we go viral. Whether you’re an aspiring creator or someone trying t…
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The Productivity Myth: Why Less Sleep Won't Make You More Successful
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Season 1: Why We Do What We Do and Why It’s Not Weird | Episode 8Is staying up late really the secret to getting more done? Or is it just a trap we keep falling for? In this episode of Sometimes Curious, Often Confused, I break down the myth of late-night productivity and why sacrificing sleep often backfires. We'll explore why we convince ourselve…
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Self-Perception, Confidence, and Seeking Validation: When Approval Helps and When It Hurts
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How much do other people’s opinions really affect the way you see yourself? In this episode of Sometimes Curious, Often Confused, we explore the connection between self-perception and external validation—breaking down how feedback from others can influence your confidence, identity, and the choices you make. You'll learn about: • What self-percepti…
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Why Does January Feel Like a Never-Ending Monday?
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Season 1: Why We Do What We Do and Why It’s Not Weird | Episode 6 You’ve survived the holidays, but now January arrives—the Monday of the year. It feels impossibly long, leaving us drained before we even get started. Is it the weight of holiday debt, the pressure of sticking to New Year’s resolutions, or simply the slow grind after festive exciteme…
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Fresh Starts: Why We Love to Begin Again (and Again)
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Season 1: Why We Do What We Do and Why It’s Not Weird | Episode 5 Every January, millions of people embrace the promise of a fresh start, setting New Year’s resolutions aimed at personal growth, better health, or greater happiness. Yet, by February, many of these goals have already fallen by the wayside. Why does this cycle of optimism and abandonm…
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Christmas in Nigeria: The Glow-Up, The Glow-Down, and The Aftermath
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Season 1: Why We Do What We Do and Why It’s Not Weird | Episode 4 Christmas is often filled with glittering lights and festive cheer, but what’s really happening behind the scenes? In this episode, we’re digging into the emotional and social costs of the holiday season—the pressures to overspend, overindulge, and maintain fake connections. From the…
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Why is Being humble a competitive sport?
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Season 1: Why We Do What We Do and Why It’s Not Weird | Episode 3 Why does being humble sometimes feel like a competitive sport? In this episode, I dive into how humility can shift from a genuine trait to a performance, with some people using it to project an image rather than live it authentically. Have you ever spotted these behaviors in others—o…
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God When: Why Nigerians Can’t Stop Saying It
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Season 1: Why We Do What We do and why It’s Not Weird | Episode 2 "God When" has become a familiar phrase in Nigerian conversations about success, hope and timing. This episode discusses what it reveals about the balance between aspiration and societal pressure, as well as the broader global fascination with public milestones. Got thoughts on today…
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A casual compliment, a kind gesture, or an offhand comment—why do these seemingly small moments sometimes leave such a lasting impression? In this episode, we explore how these interactions can unexpectedly shape our lives, influence our emotions, and even alter the way we view ourselves or others. Whether it's a kind word that boosts your confiden…
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Introducing "Sometimes Curious, Often Confused"
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Life is messy, and so are our thoughts. I’m Richard Okongwu, an Industrial Mathematics student fascinated by the twists and turns of human behavior and psychology. In this debut episode of Sometimes Curious, Often Confused, I invite you to join me on a journey through the questions we secretly ponder but rarely voice. From exploring why we lie to t…
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