Hi! We’re Emma and Fin! We’re a married couple in our thirties who have been exploring non-monogamy for over 15 years. Every week we interview people from across the spectrums of gender, sexuality, and relationship styles to hear their amazing stories. Many of our guests identify as swingers or polyamorous. However, quite a few have redefined non-monogamy in their own way by creating a unique dynamic that works for them. We hope that by giving a voice to the diverse community exploring non-m ...
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Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy. From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place. Expect real talk, lot ...
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Non-Monogamy Help is a relationship advice podcast for people in non-monogamous or polyamorous relationships. With the help of a therapist with over a decade of experience, your host Lola Phoenix, answers the questions your questions about rules, hierarchies, unicorns and more.
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The Gay Monogamy Coach podcast is hosted by the ICF-accredited life coach, workshop facilitator and author Alan Cox. He supports gay men in understanding the emotional, psychological, and practical aspects of transitioning from casual dating to a committed, monogamous relationship, while fostering clarity, confidence, and alignment with authentic relationship goals. Each episode will investigate an area that surrounds monogamy and is reinforced by practical life coaching techniques. Alan can ...
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Ein Podcast für feinfühlige und sensible Menschen, die den Schritt in eine traumasensible und bewusste offene Beziehung gemeinsam als Team gehen wollen. Und gleichzeitig ihre sichere Bindung zueinander stärken und wachsen lassen wollen.
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Here on this podcast, we make motivational content about Faith, Marriage, and Relationships. We wholeheartedly believe that there's safety in a multitude of counselors. As you journey through different seasons within your singleness, we encourage, empower, and equip you for a kingdom marriage. We make meaningful content from the perspective of two people who married after 30 and desire to share what we learned along the way.
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It's time to tell the story of the word "noetisexual" and all that means about what I've experienced. This is for putting in order the events the humans who don't care cast asunder. Our memories are not the issue nor the lie. We know what we experienced. I'll share mine, if you listen. Feel free to share if you feel inclined, via Anchor interview. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/integratednonmonogamy/support
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This podcast will chronicle the hotwife adventures from a Latina's perspective.
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Cooper and his wife are in their forties with three kids and have been married for over 17 years. While they only "officially" opened their relationship about three years ago it wasn't a completely foreign concept to them when they got together and they always had a mindset and understanding that there was more out there. Cooper's wife initially br…
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QUICKIE: Port Aransas Beach Takeover
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5. The Comparison Trap: Social media and relationship expectations.
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17:40Send us a text Episode 5: The Comparison Trap – Social media and relationship expectations. In this powerful episode, Alan Cox, ICF-accredited life coach and CBT practitioner, explores how social media silently sabotages gay relationships by feeding unrealistic comparisons. If you’ve ever found yourself measuring your love life against glossy Insta…
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How many times should you let someone violate your boundaries and can you rebuild trust after? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate…
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QUICKIE: Animal Cockblocks & Bedroom Interruptions: A Pet Peeve QUICKIE
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32:55n this laugh-out-loud QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we’re talking about the real MVPs of lifestyle interruptions: our pets. Ever tried to get down and dirty only to be stared down by your dog? Or have a cat walk across your back mid-thrust? You're not alone. From sex-curious Labradors to judgmental chihuahuas, this episode di…
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Dossie realized in her early twenties that sexuality was her path and that sexuality and feminism would be hand-in-hand in creating the changes she wanted to see in the world, and in herself. In 1969, when she was about 25, Dossie declared she'd never be monogamous again... And she never looked back! Dossie's story is full of love, laughter, joy, h…
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Queer, Curious & Candid: Catching Up with Jeremy
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1:18:08In this special guest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, the duo reunites with Jeremy, Adam’s high school friend, for a raw and heartfelt conversation about sexuality, identity, and acceptance. Jeremy, who is openly gay and outside the lifestyle, shares his unique perspective on queer experiences, chosen family, and how judgment plays out…
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QUICKIE: Why Discretion & Judgment Matter in Non-Monogamy
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36:33📍 Show Notes 1. Opener & Trigger Quick disclaimer on mature content Adam shares being hurt by judgment on social media (a “vomit emoji” left on their celebratory post) 2. The Impact of Judgment How such reactions drive people “back into the closet” Comparing lifestyle judgment to what LGBTQ+ people experience 3. Discretion vs Authenticity Why some …
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4. Redefining masculinity in gay relationships.
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13:53Send us a text Episode 4: Redefining Masculinity in Gay Relationships. Hosted by Alan Cox – The Gay Monogamy Coach. Are you tired of the cycle of hookups and emotionally unavailable men? Do you crave deep connection but find yourself pulling away just when things get serious? In this powerful episode, gay life coach and CBT practitioner Alan Cox br…
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Danielle and her husband have been married for over thirty years and have been exploring non-monogamy together for more than twenty of them. Danielle's husband initially brought up the idea but the concept felt intuitive for both of them so they started tiptoeing into it together. And of course, just because it felt intuitive doesn't mean that ther…
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3. "The Fear of Commitment: What's really underneath."
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22:29Send us a text "The Fear of Commitment: What's Really Underneath" If you've ever found yourself lying awake at 2 AM, your heart racing because the amazing guy you've been seeing just used the word "future" in a sentence about the two of you... this episode is for you. Maybe you've been here before: You meet someone incredible. The connection is ele…
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The High Costs of Swinging: An Honest Look
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1:03:56In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris dive into the financial realities of swinging. They discuss the various costs involved in the lifestyle, from babysitting fees to subscription-based websites, and how it can quickly add up. Adam and Pris share their personal experiences of navigating these expenses with limited budgets in the …
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2. "Breaking the Hookup Addiction: Understanding your patterns."
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14:46Send us a text In this episode, the gay ICF-accredited Life Coach, CBT Practitioner and author Alan Cox, explores some of the reasons that are preventing gay men from achieving the committed relationship that they would like and how the hook up culture affects them. Support the showبقلم Alan Cox
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Polite Turn Downs in Intimate Circles
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58:05In this episode, Adam and Pris discuss the complexities of navigating attraction within the swinging lifestyle. They explore scenarios where one might encounter others who are friendly and engaging but whom they are not sexually attracted to. The podcast offers candid discussions on how to handle such situations gracefully without hurting feelings.…
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Jacob and his spouse have been in some form of an open relationship since they got together over 18 years ago. In fact, their relationship actually began as a triad. Today, Jacob takes us along his relationship journey as he and his partner traveled the country living all over and exploring connections and partnerships in their own unique ways. Jac…
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QUICKIE: Podcast Therapy: Unpacking Hidden Desires and Missteps
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33:56This podcast episode provides a deep dive into the swinging lifestyle and its personal impact on two hosts, Adam and Pris. Adam introduces the podcast by describing the concept of swinging, recounting how he stumbled upon adult magazines and discovered his father’s hidden interest in the lifestyle. Pris shares her early encounters with open relatio…
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Kels first began experimenting with non-monogamy in her mid-twenties when she and her partner agreed that they could both experiment and play with others while traveling. Since then, Kels has explored a variety of different relationship styles and dynamics as she continues to figure out what's best for her. One of the things we absolutely love abou…
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The Intersection of Swinging and Sex Work: A Candid Discussion
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59:51In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris tackle the sensitive topic of sex work within the swinging community, focusing on the rise of OnlyFans among swingers. They explore the contrasting views on monetizing content within the community, with one side arguing that financial gain contradicts the essence of swinging, while the other s…
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When you’re no contact with a nesting metamour, can you make a relationship with your shared partner work? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my…
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QUICKIE: Unveiling the Art of Dirty Talk: A Hilarious Journey
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36:55Join Adam and Pris as they recount their journey from bumbling beginnings to seasoned experts in the art of dirty talk. In a playful episode filled with laughter and insight, they share personal stories about discovering what works and what doesn’t when it comes to bedroom banter. Initially, Pris's attempts were marked by a noticeable accent that a…
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Johnny started exploring non-monogamy about a decade ago when he and his partner first got together. Their partnership was non-monogamous from the beginning and they moved slowly and intentionally as they figured out what works best for them. They currently define their partnership as "open" and for them that means that everything is on the table f…
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Navigating Friendship Boundaries in the Lifestyle
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53:52In this podcast episode, hosts Adam and Pris discuss the complexities of managing boundaries within friendships, especially in social and lifestyle settings. They explore scenarios where friends cross personal boundaries, whether due to drunken behavior or misunderstanding social cues, and how challenging it can be to address such situations withou…
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QUICKIE: Flirting: The Awkward Art of Attraction
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43:39Flirting can often feel like navigating a minefield of awkwardness, especially when you're unsure if your advances are welcome. Adam and Pris tackle this topic head-on, sharing their personal experiences and hiccups along the way. They delve into the nuances of flirting, from differentiating friendly behavior from flirtatious intent to managing the…
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Ep 395 - Jenna + Wendi: Round 2
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1:09:10Jenna and Wendi are back! It's been three and a half years since we last talked to these two lovely humans and we're definitely not waiting that long until the next time! You don't need to go back and listen to Episode 209 to enjoy this conversation but we're pretty sure today's episode will leave you wanting more! Lots has changed but one thing de…
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Navigating the Pressures of Play
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1:00:50In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris explore the nuanced social, internal, and external pressures that individuals might face in swinger and polyamory lifestyles. Adam shares his experiences of feeling uncomfortable yet pressured to engage in activities, highlighting the importance of communication and consent. They discuss how saying …
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Episode 158 - Hierarchies and Polyamory
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38:46When your primary partner only wants to have threesomes other partners and not you, it may not be a good sign. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check …
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QUICKIE: Navigating the Third Wheel Dilemma in Non-Monogamous Relationships
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38:21Adam and Pris delve into the notion of feeling like a third wheel in intimate relationships, especially within non-monogamous setups. They share insights from their personal journey, highlighting how shifting focus from mere experiences to deeper connections has transformed their interactions. The duo also tackles the art of flirting, encouraging a…
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Ep 394 - Lola (Non-Monogamy Help)
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1:17:04Lola has been exploring non-monogamy since about 2009 and like many of us, their motivation has shifted and evolved along the way. In this powerful interview Lola takes us through their beautiful journey of self-discovery, healing, and untangling the web of misconceptions we're taught about sex, love, and relationships. Lola Phoenix is an American-…
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Midlife Mischief: Confidence and Sexuality Unleashed
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1:02:52In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris dive into the complexities and joys of maintaining a passionate and evolving intimate life after 40. They discuss how aging impacts sex drive and sexual confidence, sharing personal anecdotes and insights into how their relationship has transformed over the years. From dealing with menopause a…
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QUICKIE: When One Partner Wants Poly and the Other Doesn't
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33:02In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into a listener's letter that explores the complex territory of polyamory and non-monogamous relationships. The listener shares their journey as one partner becomes drawn to polyamory, eager to build deeper individual connections outside their primary relationship. Meanwhile, the other p…
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Ep 393 - Megan + Brett: Round 2
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1:06:15Megan and Brett are back! We last talked to these two just over a year ago on Episode 337 and it's been a busy year! Lots has changed... They still swing together and go to clubs together but they've also started exploring more solo dating, dabbling a bit more in kink, and they even talked about their open relationship style and choices on the pulp…
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Beyond Monogamy: Cracking the Code of Swinger Hierarchies
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59:27In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris delve into the concept of an inherent hierarchy within the swinger community, often referred to as 'tiers.' They question whether such a structure truly exists or if it's a perception rooted in individual insecurities. The hosts recount their own experiences as newcomers who felt intimidated by seem…
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Trying polyamory with a solo polyam person could be potentially difficult for a monogamous person. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate l…
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QUICKIE: The Role of Labels in Ethical Non-Monogamy
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30:29In this episode of 'Beyond Monogamy,' Adam and Pris delve into the topic of labels within the context of ethical non-monogamy. They discuss how labels such as 'cuckold,' 'hot wife,' 'pansexual,' and 'demisexual' can help individuals navigate their identities and desires within various relationship dynamics. While labels can be useful for understand…
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Princess is back! She was first on the show with her partner DD back on episode 322 and today she's here to go a bit deeper on her own individual journey. Princess is a 30-something mother of a college-aged kid and has been practicing some form of non-monogamy for almost 15 years. Like most of us, she started exploring swinging after responding to …
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The Double Life: Swing, Kids, and Finding Balance
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1:00:29In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into the complexities of maintaining an active swinging lifestyle while raising a family. With five children, including four teenagers, they provide insights into the balance between personal desires and parenting responsibilities. They emphasize the importance of prioritizing family and…
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Send us a text Episode Summary In this inaugural episode, Alan Cox introduces the concept of the "Monogamy Blueprint" - a framework for gay men to consciously design committed relationships that align with their authentic values and desires. Key Topics Explored Who This Podcast Is For Gay men currently in monogamous relationships seeking to strengt…
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QUICKIE: Squirting Uncovered: Embrace the Waterfall
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34:54In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into the intriguing topic of squirting, demystifying its nature and addressing common misconceptions. With an open-minded and informative approach, they discuss the difference between squirting and female ejaculation, as well as its composition. The hosts emphasize the importance of comm…
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As Celeste describes it, she's had a long and illustrious journey of exploring different relationships and relationship styles as she continues learning who she is and what works best for her. For so long she tried to fit herself into what she calls "primary possessive partnerships" and unfortunately spent much of her time being triggered. Today, C…
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