Send us a text In this episode, we sit down with GS Youngblood, renowned author and expert on masculine leadership, to delve into what it means to lead with strength, integrity, and emotional intelligence. We explore how men can embody healthy masculinity, moving beyond toxic patterns to lead confidently both inside and outside of the bedroom. From…

Send us a text Unlock the secrets of fetishes and discover how they can transform your sexual experiences in this provocative episode of Masturbation Monday. I’m Annette Benedetti, and I’ll be your guide as we explore the captivating world of fetishes—what sets them apart from kinks, and how they often overlap in fascinating ways. Dive deep into th…

Send us a text Have you heard about Soft Cock Appreciation Week? It's a thing, and in this episode I dive into what it is along with the art of “cockversations” with Soft Cock Appreciation Weeks hostess Erica Leroye, the visionary behind Creative Body Release. Known as the "Chief Erotic Officer," Erica brings her expertise as a Certified Sexologica…

Send us a text Welcome to today's episode of Masturbation Monday! We’re diving into "The Top 5 Sex Mistakes Married People Make—and How to Fix Them!" Whether you've been married for years or are in a long-term relationship, it’s easy to get stuck in a rut when it comes to sex. Statistics show that sexual satisfaction drops significantly over time f…

Send us a text Ready to upgrade your flirting from 'meh' to mind-blowing? In this episode, I bring in my besties, Andi and Carrie, to dish on exactly what makes women say, "Yes, please!" We’re spilling our juiciest secrets—from giving her friends a little extra love in group settings to dropping compliments that hit harder than basic pick-up lines.…

Send us a text Today my two close girlfriends join me for a frank conversation about common bedroom moves men make that aren't just bad, they're downright painful. We tell you what they are, how to identify when a woman isn't enjoying what you are doing, and what to do instead! We are also asking men to weigh in with some of the most common things …

Send us a text Can jealousy turn juicy? In this episode, we’re diving into the seductive and transformative world of compersion—the sizzling feeling of joy for your partner’s pleasure with someone else. Join me and Dr. Marie Thouin, the groundbreaking expert on this juicy topic, as we explore how compersion can heat up your love life, whether you'r…

Send us a text In this episode, we're diving headfirst into the world of kinks—some common, some wildly surprising, and all backed by some truly eye-opening research. From the mindfulness benefits of BDSM to why foot fetishes are more “wired” than weird, we’re unpacking the 10 most fascinating and unexpected kinks people indulge in. With shocking f…

Send us a text In this Locker Room Talk & Shots Podcast episode, I’m diving deep into the world of open monogamy with renowned sex and relationship expert, Dr. Tammy Nelson. We’ll unravel the mysteries and misconceptions surrounding this evolving relationship style (one I'm personally invested in), where couples redefine traditional monogamy and ex…

Send us a text Are you worried that masturbating will ruin your sex life, negatively affect your health, or make you a sad sack of a human? I have good news for you, a regular self-pleasure practice may actually improve your life on many levels. In this episode, I share some of the benefits mastubation offers people according to their sex and for f…

Send us a text Ever wondered what it truly means to embrace submission and explore the transformative power dynamics within BDSM? My good friend Kerry joins me to share her 6 yearjourney from a vanilla lifestyle to discovering her authentic submissive self. Her experiences shed light on the profound impact that power exchange can have on one’s life…

Send us a text It's Kinktober! If you are curious about the submissive experience in the D/S dynamic, you've been thinking about dipping your toes in the water of the D/S dynamic or you are a newbie to the experience then this episode is for you. I am sharing 5 tips that will help submissives lay the ground for a safe and fulfilling experience! Che…

Send us a text I’m kicking off Kinktober with a sit-down interview with Todd "Max" Carey, the producer, director, and editor of tOuch Kink, a provocative documentary that pulls back the curtain on the fascinating world of kink. From suburban soccer moms to fearless Dominatrixes, tOuch Kink explores the diverse lives of people who embrace power, ple…

Send us a text For the last 3 years, I've been sharing my personal journey as a Bisexual woman. And this year, I decided to embark on my biggest queer women's adventure yet, with my besties including regular guest Deanna/Ruby. In this episode, we tell all. Here's what happened at the Dinah! My substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/ Subs…

Send us a text Are you in love with your pussy? Do you think she is perfect the way she is? If you don’t and find that the way she looks or functions causes you pain and or embarrassment in bed or in your daily life, there are solutions! On today’s episode, My guest Dr. Reed known as the Cosmetic Gyn, talks about all of the ways the modern woman st…

Send us a text What kind of sex do women really want to be having? Today, I'm sharing 7 research-backed ways women fantasize or secretly want to have sex. Bonus! Research shows that sex is actually better for women when they get these desires met. Good news, you may just find out that your partner's deepest desires are the same as yours! My substac…

Send us a text What does healing and moving on look like after the traumatic end of a relationship? When do you date again? How do you know if you are ready for sex? In this very personal episode, I am joined by my good friend Andrea, a mental health therapist as we share the stories of healing after our breakups/divorce over this past year. Expect…

Send us a text Ever wondered why your female partner doesn't initiate sex as often as you'd like? Discover the secrets behind this common issue in our latest episode of Masturbation with me, Annette Benedetti. Today, we're exploring the intriguing dynamics of spontaneous versus responsive desire and how this understanding can transform your intimat…

Send us a text Erectile dysfunction can occur for a number of reasons. From sexual anxiety to medications that make it impossible to get hard, most men and people with penises will be faced with having a soft cock when things are heating up. Believe it or not, it doesn't have to be a problem. Sex with soft cocks can be downright arousing and my gue…

Send us a text Has your sexy fizzled? Do you feel like your mojo got up and left and might never return? You aren't alone. Believe it or not, even I have found myself depleted of sensual energy and feeling like I'd never feel sexy again. I have put together 6 steps to getting your sexy back that I will share with you in this episode. But before we …

Send us a text Could purity culture be ruining your sex life and keeping you from experiencing true pleasure? Dr. Tina Shermer Sellers, a renowned sex and relationship therapist, Joins me to talk about the origins of purity culture and how it's worked its way into our bedrooms. By the end of this episode, you'll know how to identify any traces of s…

Send us a text Curious about the latest health trend that's got everyone talking? Join me, Annette Benedetti, as we uncover the secrets of butthole sunning, also known as perineum sunning or solar anus therapy. We'll journey through its ancient Taoist origins, unraveling the claims made by modern wellness influencers who swear by its benefits—from …

Send us a text There is a surge in the number of women being diagnosed with ADHD as the medical community begins to catch up with the times and research girls' and women's health at the same rate they've studied men's. As it turns out, ADHD manifests differently in women's behavior and lives. It only makes sense that it would show up in how women e…

Send us a text What is this I hear about “the Wall”? I’m here to talk about the reality of being an “older woman” (I’m talking 40 and up) and what sex is really like. Sure, I’m going to share my perspective, but I dug into science-backed research and the studies have quite a bit to say about the type of sex and quality of intimacy older women are h…

Send us a text There’s an epidemic of loneliness plaguing people of all ages and genders. App dating is dragging single folks down. What if there was a different approach to dating that could minimize the amount of time you spend dating the wrong folks. Dr. Massimo Fantana joins me for a fascinating conversation on how people can reconnect with the…

Send us a text Introducing anal play and anal sex to you relationship with a woman, can feel a little bit like taking a leap into the unknown. She has a perfectly good vagina. How to you explain your interest in penetrating her anus? This episode is the complete guide to bringing up anal sex with your girlfriend, wife, or partner with a vulva. In t…

Send us a text Breakups can be devastating. Finding your way through grief and putting your life back together can feel impossible. Emmi Fortin is a breakup and relationship coach who has put a 3-Step approach together that guides her clients through 90 Days of healing and gets them well on their way to a full breakup recovery. In this episode, you…

Send us a text Do you want to have or give your partner some of the deepest and most intense orgasms she's ever experienced? Well, today I am sharing my guide to A-Spot stimulation, pleasure, and orgasms. This is a complete guide! In this episode, you learn: What the A-Spot is, who has one, and where it's located What's special about the A-spot A 3…

Send us a text Do you struggle with premature ejaculation or even just want to last longer in bed? Sex and relationship coach Aaron Frazin joins me for a conversation about cumming too fast. In this episode we cover what the definition of Premature Ejaculation is, we go over some of the main causes and then he walks you through a clearly defined 3 …

Send us a text I'm sharing insights from my healing journey and the quest to get my groove back through solo travel and self-pleasure. I traveled to Nashville this week on my first solo trip as a single and boy did Nashville do me right. In this episode, I'm sharing 8 things that helped me feel hotter than ever while making my way through Nashville…

Send us a text Is conservative Christian outrage over the Paris Olympics really about a drag queen performance, or is it hiding something deeper? Join us as we pull back the curtain on the hypocrisy within conservative circles, revealing a world where public morality clashes with private indulgence. My guests, Dominatrix Lucy and Ruby, aka Deanna, …

Send us a text This is the last in my series on how to become a better lover, by learning to selfpleasure according to the 5 erotic blueprint types. In this episode, Somatic Embodiment Coach AveryDean Swift shares an in-depth look at the Shapeshifter erotic blueprint. The shapeshifter finds pleasure in all of the erotic blueprint types. Listeners w…

Send us a text Ya'll had lots of questions about Penis size. Big ones, little, ones, fat ones, skinny ones, I'm going to answer them all with a little help from urologist Dr. Judson Brandies! From how to properly measure to how to make your penis longer and fater naturally, I went through all of your questions and knock them out one by one in this …

Send us a text Ever fantasize about getting kinky? Have a partner that wants a good spanking? Blow her mind by expanding your moves in bed with this self-pleasure practice. In this episode, Somatic Embodiment Coach AveryDean Swift shares an in-depth look at the kinky erotic blueprint, and how to explore it in your own body in a way that expands you…

Send us a text Have you ever wondered what it was really like inside one of Nevada’s legal brothels? Madam Bella Cummins, the longest serving madam in the US, joins me for a revealing conversation about Brothels. We cover everything from the business of running a brothel to the day-to-day lives of brothel workers and why she thinks sensual work sho…

Send us a text The Sexual Erotic Blueprint may be holding you back from pleasing your partner! Blow her mind by expanding your moves in bed with this self-pleasure practice. In this episode, Somatic Embodiment Coach AveryDean Swift shares an in-depth look at the sexual erotic blueprint, and how to explore it in your own body in a way that expands y…

Send us a text How Long Should Sex Last According to Women? That’s right, we are digging into what the studies say about how long women want sex to last. In this episode, you’ll learn what the research qualifies as sex and how people of all genders feel about how long they want it to last. This episode it packed with plenty of tips and tricks for h…

Send us a text The Sensual Erotic Blueprint may be the key to becoming the best lover you can be. Blow her mind when you excite all of her five senses and more. In this episode, Somatic Embodiment Coach AveryDean Swift shares an in-depth look at the sensual erotic blueprint, how to explore it in your own body with a yummy self-pleasure practice, an…

Send us a text What if you could transform your sexual experiences into profound & powerful sensual awakening? Join me as I explore Tantra, guided by the wisdom of Goddess Amina, a seasoned somatic sexologist and intimacy coach featured on Netflix's Sex, Love & Goop. Amina illuminates the essence of Tantra and its power to revolutionize our intimat…

Send us a text Learn how to be the best lover you can be by starting a self-pleasure practice that will help you explore the Erotic Blueprints. Find out what yours is, learn what your partner's is, how to please them, and give them the hot, intimate experiences they've been dreaming of. This is the first in a series. Somatic Embodiment Coach AveryD…

Send us a text I talk to Sex & Relationship Therapist & Expert Deb Laino about some of the biggest red flags people run into when dating. These 9+ red flags should not be ignored! Find out why. In this episode you will learn about: Bread Crumbing Love Bombing Orbiting Gaslighting Hoovering Icing Cuffing Ghosting Work with Me: https://talksexwithann…

Send us a text Have you or your partner ever struggled to find your G-Spot? Have you felt pain or numbness with penetration and always wondered how other women enjoyed penetrative sex? Do you want to find new ways to enjoy sexual stimulation and orgasmic joy? If you are curious about your G-spot, where it is, and how to wake it up and give it pleas…

Send us a text A listener wrote in to ask about SEX TOY etiquette for men. Should men get sex toys to introduce to new relationships? Will women be grossed out by their guy bringing a toy that may have been used on another woman? I weigh in with my two guests Dominatrix Lucy and Liberty. In this episode, you will find out: · What women think about …

Send us a text Have you ever had a headache occur during sex or come on fast as you are coming? Are headaches during sex or masturbation ruining your intimate life? If so you aren’t alone. A listener reached out desperate for some solutions to navigating their sex headaches, and I have some answers for them. In this episode you will learn: · What s…

Send us a text COVID hit and women who had been living a fairly conventional heteronormative life started coming out of the closet as lesbian, bisexual, and queer. How is it that so many women could suddenly realize they were lesbians after the age of 30? Pleasure coach and sex educator Whitney Miller sits down with me to answer all of the question…

Send us a text What if you could unlock a whole new realm of pleasure just by focusing on your nipples? Join me for this electrifying Masturbation Monday as I unravel the secrets behind nipplegasms—orgasms triggered solely by nipple stimulation. Pulled from a combination of my personal experience and scientific insights, I guide you on how to achie…

Send us a text Whether you are struggling to communicate with a female you are hoping to date, or you are in a relationship and having difficulty talking to your partner both in and out of bed, this podcast episode is for you. I talk to Dr. DR. Stephen Furlich, author of the Book Sex Talk: How Biological Sex Influences Gender Communication Differen…

Send us a text Have you had fantasies about having sex or being intimate with a bisexual woman? Are you a couple looking for a unicorn? In this episode of Masturbation Monday, I’m going to share 10 things you should know about having sex with a bisexual woman. From the truth about what we think about threesomes to how we feel about non-monogamy and…

Send us a text This episode could change the way you look at sex forever. Did you know that men and people with penises can have at least 20 types of orgasms. Believe it or not, the male orgasm has not enjoyed the focus it deserves and that might be exactly why women are experiencing an orgasm gap. In this episode I talk to sex and intimacy expert …

Send us a text Today, I’m talking about squirting. Have you ever squirted or been with someone who did? Have you seen it on video but never in person? Today I’m sharing a bunch of fun facts about squirting along with how you can experiment with it in your own sexual life. In this episode, you will discover the following: What squirting is What squi…