Dads face unique issues during and after divorce. We identify and address the issues relevant to divorced/divorcing dads and create an action plan to survive and thrive! *Become a community member and access full episodes and additional MEMBERS ONLY content: https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/* DISCLAIMER: The purpose of this podcast is to inform not influence. It is not a substitute for professional care or advice by a qualified professional. The host as well as guests who sp ...
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Clinical neuroscientist, inspirational speaker, best-selling author, and international coach, Dr. Ali Lankerani, affectionately known as Dr. L, The Parent Whisperer, joins Jude to talk about his mission to support, inspire, and empower as many people as possible to step into their thrive and leave a legacy. Tune in and learn his 4 steps for accompl…
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196 - Practical Advice: Budget-Friendly Vacations for Divorced Dads
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Divorce can be tough, especially when it comes to managing finances and maintaining a sense of normalcy for your children. But just because money might be tight doesn't mean you can't create unforgettable memories with your kids. With a little creativity and planning, divorced dads can still enjoy quality time with their children through budget-fri…
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195 - Tips for Dads to Prepare Their Attorney for Trial
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Divorce proceedings can be emotionally and legally complex, especially when children are involved. For dads navigating the divorce process, effective communication and preparation with your attorney are crucial for achieving the best outcome. Listen in to learn some essential tips to help you prepare your attorney for trial. Join The Divorce Dadvoc…
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194 - How Dads Can Cope With Being Served Divorce Papers
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Divorce can be a devastating and emotionally challenging experience for anyone involved, and for fathers, the shock of being served divorce papers can feel particularly overwhelming. Suddenly, your world may seem to be turned upside down, leaving you feeling lost and uncertain about the future. While there's no denying that this is a difficult time…
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193 - 10 Reminders That You, as a Father, Are Important
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In the journey of parenthood, fathers often play a pivotal but sometimes overlooked role. While the spotlight often shines on maternal care, the influence of fathers on their children's lives is equally significant. Research over the years has underscored the unique contributions fathers make to their children's well-being and development. Here are…
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192 - How Dads Can Safeguard Their Rights And Well-being During Divorce
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Divorce is a challenging journey, especially when it comes to navigating the complex issues of asset separation, parenting arrangements, and household responsibilities. For dads going through this process, it's crucial to protect themselves and their interests while also prioritizing their well-being and maintaining a healthy environment, particula…
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191- REPLAY: How To Heal From Betrayal
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What is Post Betrayal Syndrome? Listen in as Dr. Debi Silber the founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute, holistic psychologist, author, and health, mindset and personal development expert joins the show to explain. She shares the 5 stages we'll go through in order to fully heal from betrayal. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Com…
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190 - Rebuilding Amidst Divorce: 10 Ways To Combat Loneliness And Rediscover Yourself
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Divorce is undoubtedly one of life's most challenging experiences, often leaving individuals grappling with feelings of loneliness and uncertainty about the future. However, amidst the pain and emotional turmoil, there lies an opportunity for personal growth and self-discovery. In this episode, we'll explore ten practical ways to combat loneliness …
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189 - Simple Grace Through Your Divorce
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Hear an inspiring message from Shawn Reinsel who shares his divorce experience and how through it he was able to find a new way of relating to God that's rooted and grounded in His abundant, life-giving grace. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MOR…
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188 - The Mad Men Of Masculinity Show: Fathering Through Divorce
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Jude joins Kirk and Jason on The Mad Men of Masculinity Show and discusses fathering through divorce. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in t…
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Are you a nice guy? If so, you are probably codependent. In this episode Jude defines codependency, gives examples, and shares tips for how to stop being codependent. Alicia Munoz's Article - How Do You Overcome Codependency? A Therapist's Guide - https://us02web.zoom.us/j/3104353333#success No More Mr. Nice Guy - Dr. Robert Glover - https://tinyur…
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186 - The Power of Community: 10 Reasons Divorced Dads Shouldn’t Go Through It Alone
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Going through a divorce is undoubtedly one of life's toughest challenges, and for dads navigating this difficult terrain, the importance of community cannot be overstated. Instead of self-isolating during divorce, it's crucial for divorced or divorcing dads to surround themselves with a supportive community. In this episode, we'll explore 10 reason…
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185 - A Fresh Start: 10 New Year's Resolutions for Divorced Dads
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As the clock strikes midnight and we bid farewell to the old year, it's time for divorced dads to embrace a new chapter in their lives. The journey post-divorce can be challenging, but the start of a new year offers a perfect opportunity for self-reflection and personal growth. Here are 10 empowering New Year's resolutions tailored for divorced dad…
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184 - REPLAY: Setting Boundaries With Friends And Family During The Holidays
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The holidays can be a beautiful time of the year, but they can also be challenging when boundaries are being overstepped by friends and family members. Listen in and learn some tips for setting healthy boundaries with friends and family during the holidays. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Works…
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183 - Navigating Discipline with Love and Logic
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In this episode, we'll explore practical ways divorced or divorcing dads can discipline their children authoritatively using the principles of Love and Logic. This approach emphasizes setting clear boundaries with empathy and love, allowing children to learn from their mistakes, in stark contrast to the harsh and rigid authoritarian style. Let's de…
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182 - Navigating the Ebb and Flow of Friendships Amidst Divorce
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The end of a marriage is a profound life event that ripples through various aspects of one's existence, not sparing even the social fabric woven through friendships. Unfortunately, these connections are not impervious to the seismic shifts brought about by divorce. In the wake of this transformative experience, friendships may encounter strain, and…
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181 - Dad Power: The Scientific Blueprint For Raising Healthy Adults
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Fathers, often unsung heroes in the narrative of child development, play a pivotal role in shaping the health and well-being of their offspring. Scientific studies provide robust evidence that highlights the profound impact fathers have on the journey to healthy adulthood. Let's explore 10 reasons, each rooted in concrete statistics from reputable …
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180 - Navigating The Roller Coaster Of Splitville With A Smile
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Divorce is a roller coaster ride that nobody really wants a ticket for, but life happens, and here you are, a dad on the wild journey of splitting assets and emotions. While it might seem like a never-ending tunnel of paperwork and negotiations, there's room for humor along the way. So, buckle up, fellow dads, as we explore the hilarious milestones…
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179 - Steps To A Successful Mediation
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Preparing for divorce mediation is important. Listen in to hear the ultimate list of steps you need to take to prepare for divorce mediation. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You …
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178 - Replay: Self-Worth: “Maybe I’m Not So Bad After All”
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As you successfully adjust to the crisis of divorce you will feel better about yourself. Jude discusses that you were born with 50% of your self-worth and the other 50% you learned growing up. Tune in to learn 11 steps to an improved self-worth. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Cours…
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177 - Narcissistic Smear Campaign: What It Is, Tactics & How To Deal With It
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A narcissistic smear campaign is a narcissistic manipulation tactic used to harm a person’s reputation and isolate them from their support network. This is a common behavior for those with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) when they realize they have lost control over a person and often happens at the conclusion of a relationship. Listen in a…
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Love and Logic is a process by which children grow through their mistakes and learn from the consequences of their choices. Listen in and learn the 2 basic rules and 8 skills of Love and Logic parenting. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - h…
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175 - 8 Stupid Questions To Ask A Divorced Dad
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While I understand discussing the end of a marriage is awkward for some people, there’s a right and wrong way to address the situation. In my experience, here are some questions that should never come out of your mouth when talking to a newly separated or divorced dad. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings …
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174 - Benefits Of Setting Healthy Co-Parenting Boundaries
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The success of a co-parenting arrangement hinges on the ability of parents to exhibit mutual respect with one another. Children “learn what they live,” and if they witness both parents collaborating in healthy ways, even while living apart, this can have a lasting influence on their ability to manage their own relationships. Listen in to learn the …
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173 - Practical Advice: Pros And Cons Of A Parenting Coordinator
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When parents cannot agree on the terms of child custody or how decisions will be made regarding the parties’ children, hiring a parenting coordinator may be a good idea. However, there are pros and cons to a parenting coordinator. Listen in as Jude shares the benefits and potential drawbacks of hiring or appointing a parenting coordinator. Join The…
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172 - 5 Ways To Become A Real Man Through Your Divorce
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Boys and men today are facing a crisis of masculinity. To solve this crisis, positive examples are needed. Listen in as Jude shares how you can be this positive example even while you are experiencing the challenge of divorce. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discus…
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171 - 7 Ways To Manage Sadness & Anxiety During Your Divorce
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Divorce is stressful. Stress can lead to anxiety and sadness or depression. It is critical that you are able to manage this during your divorce so that you are capable of making smart decisions that will impact you and your children's lives for years to come. Listen in to learn 7 ways to manage sadness & anxiety during your divorce. Join The Divorc…
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170 - Identifying Verbal Turbulence In Your Divorce
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Listen in as Jude is joined by spiritual therapist and author Wendy Watson who shares details about her book Verbal Turbulence: The 70/20/10 Rule and how to identify the messages we are supposed to be in tune with and what to do with them. Wendy's website - http://TBRSpiritualHealth.com Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episode…
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The Stoic philosophy finds its origins in the ancient wisdom of Epictetus, Seneca, and Marcus Aurelius. The philosophy offers a path to which one can always return to overcome the challenges of life like divorce. Listen as Jude shares this philosophy to developing perseverance, build your mental strength and discover your purpose. Join The Divorce …
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168 - Transform Your Relationship With Your Kids
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Dr. Eric Goodman joins the show to share the BANK system for transformational change in understanding and conducting relationships. Listen in as he shares the program that will help strengthen your relationships and communication with your children and others. Dr. Goodman's Links: Claim Your Complimentary Personality Report ($99 value) In Less Than…
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167 - REPLAY: "Toxic" Masculinity And How To Learn From Divorce
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Clinical psychologist and author of The Tactical Guide To Woman: How Men Can Manage Risk In Dating And Marriage, Dr. Shawn T. Smith joins the show. We discuss the false narrative of "toxic" masculinity and how divorced fathers can learn from the end of their marriage and not make the same mistakes in the future. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membershi…
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166 - Dads Matter: Authoritative Parenting
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The authoritative parenting style is an approach to child-rearing that combines warmth, sensitivity, and the setting of limits. The result is kids raised by authoritative parents are more likely to become independent, self-reliant, socially accepted, academically successful, and well-behaved. Listen in to learn why dads are an important part of thi…
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165 - REPLAY: Dads Guide To Divorce: Step 1 Clarify Your Vision
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When working with fathers entering into divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads' Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing the specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilized it in order to achieve…
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164 - Gender Bias In Family Law Court
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Gender bias in family law court is real. Listen in to learn what it is, how to spot it and what to do when it rears its ugly head in your divorce. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjusting T…
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163 - Replay: Surviving Your Narcissistic Divorce
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Are you experiencing divorce from a narcissistic ex? Attempting to co-parent with a narcissistic ex? Duane Robert the founder of DadSurvivingDivorce.com and the DSD podcast joins Jude to talk about how to help men survive a narcissistic divorce. Topics discussed include: What is narcissism? What are signs of a narcissistic ex? Strategies to deal wi…
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162 - Divorce Support For Dads Group Meeting
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Listen in to the semi monthly Divorce Support For Dads group meeting. Topics discussed are authoritarian vs. authoritative parenting, how to adjust to your new living space, guilt about parenting, and more. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thediv…
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161 - The Cost And Consequences Of Father Absence
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Some father advocates would say that almost every social ill faced by America’s children is related to fatherlessness. Tune in and listen to why it is critical for dads to fight for parenting time with their children and the consequences of not doing so. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Pr…
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160 - Common Questions About Parenting Plans
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While a parenting plan should be tailored to match what your family needs in a post-divorce situation the family court will need to see certain pieces in place before accepting your plan. Listen in as Jude shares some common parenting plan components and some pitfalls to avoid. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE …
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159 - Replay: Post Betrayal Syndrome: How To Heal From Betrayal
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What is Post Betrayal Syndrome? Listen in as Dr. Debi Silber the founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute, holistic psychologist, author, and health, mindset and personal development expert joins the show to explain. She shares the 5 stages we'll go through in order to fully heal from betrayal. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Com…
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#158 - Practical Advice: 21 Affordable Ways To Beat The Summer Heat With Your Kids
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Summer camps are great. Trips to the zoo and the air-conditioned museum are wonderful too. But our funds, or lack of, can limit how much of that we can do. Idle minds and bodies are not developing minds and bodies. So when it gets hot, what can you do to enjoy time with your kids and beat the summer heat? Her are 21 affordable ways. Source: AllProD…
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#157 - Father’s Day Special: Ways To Support A Dad Through Divorce
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Do you know a dad going through divorce? Are you a dad going through divorce? Either way listen to this episode to learn how to support a dad going through divorce or if you are a divorcing dad ways in which you can seek support. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups &…
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#156 - REPLAY: Spiritual Warfare In Divorce
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Executive speaker coach, speechwriter, and author Jeff Davenport joins the show and shares a compelling message of hope for why your divorce is spiritual warfare and why the stakes are so high. This is a must listen! Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - http…
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#155 - Living By Your Values During Divorce
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It is good to understand your values, but they mean nothing without action. Listen into part two of this series on values as Jude shares some tips that will help you live life more authentically. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvoc…
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#154 - 6 Tips For Defining Your Values
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Whether you are in the midst of your divorce or looking to date after divorce, defining and understanding your values is critical. Listen in as Jude shares 6 ways for defining your values. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com…
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#153 - 5 Things To Look For In A Relationship
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Whether you are contemplating dating or assessing the end of your marriage it is critical to know and understand that these 5 elements must be present in your relationship. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tier…
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#152 - Choosing Love Over Fear: Divorce Edition
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Every moment there lies a choice. The choice of your thoughts, the choice of your words, the choice of your actions. All of these moment-by-moment choices add up to creating our reality. It is critical to realize that every choice is directed by one of two states of consciousness – love or fear. And each choice you make in thought, word or action d…
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It is important to care for the four legs of your stool when going through this challenging time. Those four legs are your mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual life. In this episode listen in to learn tips for developing the spiritual parts of your life. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Course…
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#150 - 7 Ways To Overcome Your Victim Mindset
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The results of your life are the product of your thoughts, choices, and actions. Realizing this and living it will eliminate the chance of playing the victim and put your life in your own hands. Listen in for 7 ways you can do this. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Group…
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#149 - A Unique Approach To Parental Alienation With Garry Junkuhn
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Through his unique approach to parental alienation Jude’s guest Garry Junkuhn helps to guide fathers who have lost contact with their kids. Listen to this important conversation that could forever change the dynamic of your relationship with your children. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – …
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#148 - 10 Ways To Combat Loneliness & Sadness During Divorce
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Divorce is often associated with a sad end, but it is an opportunity to start a new life and to surround yourself with the things you value most. Tune in and hear how to first combat those feelings of loneliness and sadness and turn them into a life that is amazing and inspiring. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FRE…
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